04/08/2025
Once you reach a certain state of expanded love… there is no going back to ordinary relationships.
So I ask you — where are you right now on your evolution of love?
Are you still searching, desiring, or waiting for “the One”?
If so, perhaps consider this: you are the One.
Whoever enters your life is merely a mirror to remind you of that sacred truth.
In my own journey, I was once a serial monogamist — even married for 13 years. But something subtle and profound has shifted in me recently. Let me try to share it…
I realized that constantly being “in a relationship” was keeping me from something far deeper — myself.
From the flow of life, which longs to move through me.
So I turned inward.
I chose sovereignty — not as isolation, but as wholeness.
A state where I am deeply nourished, powerful, and rooted in my own essence.
As I watched the patterns of masculine–feminine dynamics, I began to sense when entanglement was arising. That sticky, subconscious projection I felt coming at me when man was coming with energy of possession, sizing me up as if I might check off those boxes in his mind.
As women of the Goddess, we cannot fall into societal illusions.
We are guides into the sacred realms of Love.
We are here to liberate, not to cling.
To ignite, not to possess.
Jealousy, attachment, desperation — these are not love. They are just unhealed longing wearing a mask.
The path of T.ᴀɴᴛʀᴀ teaches us to become conduits of unconditional, universal Love.
Love that is rooted in trust, not fear.
Love that flows freely, without needing to grasp or own.
This is a deep unlearning — a shedding of the old societal story that tells us we must “settle down.”
Because let’s be honest… that often just means putting out the fire of our wild, creative life-force.
I’m not saying you shouldn’t marry, if you’ve truly found soul-deep love. But partnership is not the purpose of life.
We are here to become vessels of the Divine in many forms.
And for some of us — especially those walking the path of the Priestess — there comes a time when we can no longer betray our balance, our power, or our sacred path for a single moment.
Continued in the comments.