Intuitive Drawing Ko Samui

Psychologist & Personality Analyst
Helping you understand patterns, emotions & choices on a deeper level. Online 💻 & in-person 🌴 sessions
Based on Koh Samui

22/06/2026

Sometimes we need distance.

Not because something is wrong.
Not because we want to leave.
Not because we don’t care.

But because being alone for a while helps us hear ourselves more clearly.

In a world full of conversations, responsibilities, expectations, and constant movement, solitude can become a place of restoration.

A pause.
A breath.
A chance to notice what is happening inside.

Being alone and feeling lonely are not the same thing.

Sometimes stepping back is exactly what helps us reconnect — with ourselves and with others.

17/06/2026

Before every session, there is a process that usually remains unseen.

Preparing materials.

Creating space.

Thinking about possibilities.

But therapy is never really about the materials.

It is about creating a space where new thoughts, feelings and insights can emerge.

Sometimes one conversation can shift the way we see ourselves, our relationships or a situation we have been carrying for a long time.

What would you like to understand about yourself better right now?

If you feel ready to explore it, I’d be happy to support you on that journey.

15/06/2026

Sometimes we discover something about ourselves not through words, but through images, colours and symbols.

We are drawn to certain pictures, certain shades, certain stories.

We pause longer on one image and pass by another without noticing it.

In art therapy, these choices become a doorway to self-exploration.

Not because there is a “right” interpretation.

But because every image can start a conversation with yourself.

Sometimes what catches our attention is already trying to tell us something.

And all we need is a moment to listen.

12/06/2026

An hour-long conversation in a few seconds.

Questions.
Notes.
Thoughts.
New perspectives.

Sometimes the most important changes happen quietly, almost invisibly.

And then one day life begins to feel different.

08/06/2026

Throughout my life, I have changed my preferences in food, clothing, and even literature many times, but there are things that remain unchanged: The Master and Margarita by M. Bulgakov and If by R. Kipling. I reread them and carry them faithfully in my memory year after year.

What remains your literary treasure?

В жизни я много раз меняла свои предпочтения в еде, одежде и даже в литературе, но есть неизменное: это “Мастер и Маргарита» М. Булгакова и «If” стихотворение Р. Киплинга, их я перечитываю и беззаветно несу в своей памяти уже много лет.

Что для вас остается вашим сокровищем в литературной форме?

Rudyard Kipling:

If

If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or being hated, don’t give way to hating,
And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise:

If you can dream – and not make dreams your master;
If you can think – and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build’em up with worn-out tools:

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: “Hold on!”

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with Kings – nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,
And – which is more – you’ll be a Man, my son!

06/06/2026

When you work with a client for a long time, there comes a moment when what we have discussed for months or even years goes through a kind of “settling.”

The emotions are no longer as sharp, the words seem to be the same, but a “shift” happens, a “moment of insight” for the client — as if everything is the same, yet somehow different.

The trees outside the window are still the same, and we continue talking, discussing, laughing, and crying together, but something has already changed. Something subtle, barely noticeable, yet revealed, has surfaced for the client.

And the client has changed.

And once the client has changed, changes will begin to appear in their life — they start to feel it.

I notice this moment, and to me it looks like acceptance, like the absence of an inner struggle. (Outwardly, the face becomes calmer, the muscles are no longer in a state of hypertonicity.)

Life goes on, and the same trees remain outside the window — they just look different now.

Когда долго работаешь с клиентом, наступает момент, когда то, что мы обсуждали месяцами или даже годами, проходит своеобразную «усадку».

Эмоции уже не такие острые, слова вроде бы те же, но происходит «сдвиг», «момент прозрения» у клиента — как будто всё то же самое, но стало иначе.

И деревья за окном те же, и мы всё так же разговариваем, обсуждаем, смеёмся и плачем, а что-то уже совсем другое, едва уловимое, но всё же проявившееся, вышедшее на поверхность для клиента, появилось.

И он изменился.

А раз изменился он, то будут изменения и в его жизни — он начинает это чувствовать.

Я замечаю этот момент, и для меня он выглядит как принятие, как отсутствие внутренней борьбы. (Внешне лицо становится более спокойным, мышцы перестают быть в гипертонусе.)

Жизнь продолжается, и всё те же деревья, только выглядят они уже иначе.

04/06/2026

Psychological transformational game “Empire of Magicians” was created by Natalia Khloponina, a psychologist and methodologist.

Why is this important to mention? Because this is not a board game and not about entertainment, although there is definitely a sense of magic in it — especially in the names of the player statuses: Magician, Ruler of the World, Talents.

Don’t let that confuse you.

Through game situations, you will draw cards with tasks. Some tasks are completed individually, while others involve everyone sitting at the table.

The game is dynamic, but that does not mean there is no room for reflection — quite the opposite.

The game lasts approximately 4.5 hours, during which you will have time to:

▪ See yourself through others and through your own ideas about yourself and life in general;
▪ Notice, express, and/or change your strategies in communication with other people;
▪ Develop your self-presentation skills and receive immediate feedback from other players — something that rarely happens in everyday life, where everyone usually has their own reasons for not sharing honest feedback;
▪ Explore your boundaries with other people and look at different roles you may take on: rescuer, victim, or aggressor;
▪ Look at and explore your “game request” — which is also a request about life — from different perspectives. This may involve developing a new business direction, a relationship with another person, or anything else that feels important to you right now.

And much more.

Despite being a psychological training format, the game does not take away the ease of the experience.

In the end, the game is played in a group, but everyone is really playing with themselves, answering one question:

“How is this about me?”

Психологическая трансформационная игра «Империя магов» была создана Натальей Хлопониной — психологом и методологом.

Почему это важно упомянуть? Потому что это не настольная игра и не про развлечение, хотя ощущение магии присутствует, особенно в названии статусов игроков: Маг, Властелин мира, Таланты.

Пусть это вас не смущает.

С помощью игровых ситуаций вы будете тянуть карточки с заданиями. Они могут быть для индивидуального выполнения либо вовлекать всех участников, сидящих за столом.

Игра динамическая, но это не значит, что в ней не будет возможности порефлексировать — ещё как будет.

Продолжительность игры в среднем составляет 4,5 часа, за которые у вас будет время:

▪ Увидеть себя через других, свои представления о себе и жизни в целом;

▪ Увидеть, проявить или/и изменить свои стратегии в общении с другими людьми;

▪ Получить возможность прокачать свои навыки в представлении себя, получив обратную связь сразу от других игроков, чего обычно не происходит в реальной жизни, так как у всех нас есть свои причины не делиться обратной связью по другому человеку;

▪ Исследовать свои границы с другими людьми, посмотреть на разные свои роли: «спасателя», «жертвы» или «агрессора»;

▪ Посмотреть и поисследовать свой «запрос» на игру = запрос на жизнь с разных сторон. Это может быть развитие нового направления в бизнесе или взаимоотношение с другим человеком, что для вас важно в данный момент.

И многое другое.

Игра не отменяет лёгкости проживания, несмотря на то, что это, повторюсь, психологический тренинг.

В заключение: игра групповая, но каждый играет с собой, отвечая на вопрос:

«А как это про меня?»

01/06/2026

Some things cannot be rushed.

Not healing.
Not understanding.
Not growth.

A lily doesn’t bloom because someone tells it to.

It opens when the conditions are right.

People are not so different.

Sometimes the most important work happens quietly, beneath the surface, long before anything becomes visible.

29/05/2026

Behind every session there is a quiet preparation nobody usually sees.

Canvases.
Paints.
Textures.
Small details that help create a space where something meaningful can happen.

I believe that transformation doesn’t happen because of techniques alone.

It happens when people feel safe enough to be honest, curious, and open to seeing themselves in a new way.

That’s what I prepare for.

If this kind of work speaks to you, send me a message and I’ll tell you about upcoming groups.

27/05/2026

Sometimes we need distance not from people, but from noise.

From thoughts that run too fast.
From endless lists.
From expectations.

Nature has a different rhythm.

It doesn’t ask us to become someone else.
It simply reminds us to come back to ourselves.