Wholeness and Wellness Counselling Services

Wholeness and Wellness Counselling Services Journey towards healing with Wholeness and Wellness Counselling. At Wholeness and Wellness Counselling, we embrace a holistic approach to healing.

Expert support for personal and relationship growth, available online and in-person. đź•’ By appointment only: Open Mon-Sat, and limited Sunday hours (no admin). You cannot separate parts of your self - your mind is connected to your body, your thinking to your feeling, your ability to function as an individual to your relationships with other people. We offer individual and group therapy that helps

align the different aspects of you as you heal from painful experiences. How can therapy help? Safe and confidential counselling or therapy will give you the tools to move toward your best self! We help people heal by using a range of practices. You can learn how to:
* connect your thinking with the behaviours that serves your best self.
* understand how past experiences have shaped your feelings and created negative stories about your self worth and value. use arts-based tools to connect with your best self.
* live in constant connection with your present environment and not be easily triggered by your pain points.

Exhaustion is shaped by what you're doing, and by the pace at which you're doing it.Moving quickly, responding constantl...
07/08/2026

Exhaustion is shaped by what you're doing, and by the pace at which you're doing it.

Moving quickly, responding constantly, switching tasks, treating every request as urgent: all of it adds strain, even to a workload that would otherwise be manageable.

Run this pace check:

Where am I rushing because the situation genuinely requires it? Where am I rushing out of habit? Where could I move more steadily without causing harm or delay?

You may not control every demand. You can likely reduce unnecessary urgency in at least one part of your day.

Right now, what's hitting you harder: the workload or the pace?

Comment WORKLOAD, PACE, or BOTH.

You can get so used to moving quickly that a steadier pace starts to feel wrong.Every pause gets filled. One task ends a...
03/08/2026

You can get so used to moving quickly that a steadier pace starts to feel wrong.

Every pause gets filled. One task ends and the next begins immediately. Even quiet moments carry the feeling that you should be doing something.

That is not always about motivation or a busy schedule. Sometimes it is a body that has learned to stay ready for the next demand.

Pacing means asking what speed you can actually sustain, without repeatedly overriding your own exhaustion.

Notice one place today where you are moving faster than the moment requires.

Could you leave more time between tasks? Give one responsibility less intensity? Finish something without immediately starting the next?

What part of your life feels too fast right now? One word in the comments.

Save this for your next rushed day.

After sorry?Apology matters, but it is only one part of repair.Meaningful repair may also need:• changed behaviour• clea...
31/07/2026

After sorry?
Apology matters, but it is only one part of repair.
Meaningful repair may also need:
• changed behaviour
• clearer boundaries
• honest acknowledgement
• consistency over time
• a different response when conflict returns
Today, write about what repair would actually need in order to feel meaningful.
Try to keep your answer specific.
Save this for later if you want to sit with it more deeply.
Comment “repair” if this helped you name what is needed.

Too quiet?Silence can protect us.It can also become the place where disconnection quietly grows.Today’s prompt invites y...
30/07/2026

Too quiet?
Silence can protect us.
It can also become the place where disconnection quietly grows.
Today’s prompt invites you to notice where silence has become part of the relationship pattern.
You might reflect on:
• What have I stopped saying?
• What feels too risky to name?
• What has remained unsaid for too long?
Let this be a gentle truth-telling exercise.
Save this if you need to come back when you have more space.
Comment “quiet” if this speaks to something you have been holding in.

What is yours?Responsibility is different from blame.It is the practice of noticing your part in a pattern with enough h...
29/07/2026

What is yours?
Responsibility is different from blame.
It is the practice of noticing your part in a pattern with enough honesty to respond differently.
Today’s prompt can help you ask:
• How do I usually respond when this begins?
• What do I contribute to the cycle?
• What is mine to work on?
This is about clarity rather than self-attack.
Save this if you want to return when you feel more settled.
Comment “mine” if this reflection feels important today.

Still unheard?Conflict can quickly become about proving a point.Underneath many arguments is often something more vulner...
28/07/2026

Still unheard?
Conflict can quickly become about proving a point.
Underneath many arguments is often something more vulnerable:
• the wish to be understood
• the wish to be acknowledged
• the wish to feel taken seriously
Today’s reflection invites you to listen beneath the surface of your own response.
What are you really wanting the other person to understand?
Save this for a quieter moment and write what comes up.
Comment “heard” if this landed with you.

This again?When the same conversation keeps returning, it usually carries information.It may be pointing to something th...
27/07/2026

This again?
When the same conversation keeps returning, it usually carries information.
It may be pointing to something that has not yet been fully heard, understood, or repaired.
Use today’s prompt to slow down and notice the pattern:
• What keeps coming back?
• Who is usually involved?
• What feeling seems to return with it?
Write honestly. Today is about noticing the pattern more clearly, rather than solving it immediately.
Save this and return to it later if needed.
Comment “again” if this feels familiar.

Some conversations need more than effort.They may need:• safety• structure• honesty• clearer boundaries• guided communic...
24/07/2026

Some conversations need more than effort.
They may need:
• safety
• structure
• honesty
• clearer boundaries
• guided communication
• enough support for people to slow down and listen
When the same conversation keeps returning, support can help people understand what is happening beneath the conflict and begin responding differently.
At Wholeness & Wellness, we support individuals, couples, families, and organisations navigating relationship strain, communication breakdown, conflict, and repair.
Start repair with support. Book a consultation or enquire through the link in bio.

Same conversation, same tension, same ending?Repeated conflict can leave people feeling tired, confused, and unsure what...
22/07/2026

Same conversation, same tension, same ending?
Repeated conflict can leave people feeling tired, confused, and unsure what else to try. When conversations keep breaking down, the issue may sit in the pattern that takes over once the conversation begins.
This month’s blog explores:
• why communication patterns repeat
• why repair requires more than apology
• how therapy can support individuals, couples, and families
• how mediation can support conflict, decisions, and next steps
• why repeated conversations often need more structure
If you have been having the same conversation again and again, this article may be a helpful place to begin.
Understand the pattern. Read the full article through the link in bio.

20/07/2026

Meet Vandana Siew Sankar-Ali, Clinical Psychologist at Wholeness & Wellness Counselling Services. 🌿

Vandana believes that healing begins with feeling seen, heard, and understood. She is deeply passionate about supporting individuals through life's challenges, creating a therapeutic space where clients feel safe to explore, grow, and reconnect with themselves.

With empathy and compassion at the heart of her practice, Vandana walks alongside her clients, helping them navigate difficult emotions, build resilience, and move toward meaningful, lasting change.

Wherever you are on your journey, you don't have to face it alone. đź’š

đź“ž Ready to take the first step? Book a 15-minute consultation to be matched with the clinician who best fits your needs.

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Corner Bushe And Maloney Streets
San Juan
00000

Opening Hours

Monday 08:00 - 18:00
Tuesday 08:00 - 18:00
Wednesday 08:00 - 18:00
Thursday 08:00 - 18:00
Friday 08:00 - 18:00
Saturday 08:00 - 18:00

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+18683471042

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