08/31/2026
Do you ever feel like part of you wants one thing while another part wants the exact opposite? Maybe one part is ready to set the boundary, and another part is terrified of what happens if you do. Maybe one part wants to rest, and another insists you haven't earned it yet.
If that sounds familiar, you're not broken and you're not "too much." You're human, and there's a therapeutic approach built entirely around this experience.
In our latest blog post, we're introducing Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy: the idea that your mind isn't one single voice, but many parts, each trying to protect you in its own way. None of these parts are the enemy, even the loudest or most exhausting ones. They learned their job for a reason.
We also talk about why this model can be especially meaningful for Black women, q***r folks, and anyone navigating identity-based trauma - because so many of our parts developed in response to very real, ongoing pressures. Code-switching. Hypervigilance. Shrinking so we won't be seen as "too much."
Like pieces of a mosaic, every part of you has a place in the whole, even the ones that feel hardest to understand.
Read the full post here:
Ever feel like part of you wants one thing while another part wants the exact opposite? That inner tug-of-war is at the heart of Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy, a model that sees the mind as made up of many parts rather than one single voice. Some parts protect you by staying busy, staying qu...