06/04/2026
When I do big things I send an if i die message to my family. This time I also hope ive triggered this in some of you!
Tomorrow I have surgery and here is my if I leave this world before you!
I hope if i leave you with anything, let it be this:
Know your value.
Not because you're better than anyone else, but because when you truly know your value, you stop accepting what hurts you, diminishes you, or asks you to betray yourself.
Love yourself enough to make decisions from self-respect instead of fear, guilt, pressure, or loneliness. So much of life is spent trying to earn love, keep peace, avoid rejection, or be who others need us to be. Don't lose yourself doing that.
Trust what you know deep inside. When something feels off, pay attention. Stop talking yourself out of your own wisdom. TRUST YOUR FIRST GUT!
Choose people whose actions match their words. Choose honesty. Choose accountability. Choose peace more often than chaos.
Don't settle—not because life should be perfect, but because sincerity, respect, effort, and growth matter.
Take risks. Try things. Fail. Learn. Change your mind when new truth finds you. Don't let fear become the author of your life.
And please remember this: your worth has never been determined by who chose you, who left you, what you own, what you've achieved, or what anyone thinks of you.
Love each other. Laugh often. Be kind.
But never abandon yourself to prove your love
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I believe there is a love bigger than fear, bigger than shame, bigger than all the things that try to make us feel small. Follow that love.✨️✨️✨️✨️
And whenever you're unsure what to do, choose the path that allows you to keep your self-respect.
Trust your first gut!
