09/08/2026
ππ Happy Tuesday! Itβs time for another Tipful Tuesday! ππ
Today we are talking about a part of the school day that can be SO much funβ¦but can also be one of the hardest times of the day for some kids: π RECESS!
Recess is VERY unstructured. Kids have to figure out WHO to play with, WHAT to play, HOW to join, HOW to stay in the play, what to do when the plan changes, and more!
That requires SO many skills!
π Executive Functioning: planning what to do, initiating play, staying with a plan, shifting when the plan changes, monitoring what others are doing, and problem solving.
π Social Pragmatics: joining a group, asking to play, reading verbal/nonverbal cues, taking turns, sharing ideas, being a leader AND follower, and repairing social problems.
π Emotional Regulation: handling waiting, losing, not going first, hearing βno,β friends choosing something different, unexpected changes, and figuring out what to do when frustrated.
π Todayβs Tip: Create a Recess Visual Schedule!
A Recess Schedule can focus on the......
πActivities
πFriends to play with
πSpecific Social Skills
πand more -- there are many ways to create a Recess Schedule
The goal isn't for your child to follow a script forever. The visual gives their brain a PLAN while they are developing the executive functioning, social communication, play, and emotional regulation skills needed to navigate recess more independently.
π And did you know that if recess is HARD for your child, KidSpeak may be able to help in the environment where it is actually happening?
π A KidSpeak therapist can come to your child's school during recess for therapy targeting social pragmatics, play, executive functioning, and emotional regulation skills.
π OR we can schedule a session after school or on the weekend at your child's school playground to practice those skills in the actual environment with fewer demands.
If recess is hard for your child, DM us! Sometimes kids don't need to be told to βgo playββthey need someone to teach them HOW. ππ