09/19/2026
The day the hot flashes showed up…
She came in like she was my new best friend. Apparently, she did not get the memo that I was not accepting new friend requests! Yet, there she was, uninvited and making herself right at home.
Now, let me be honest: I am naturally a sweater. Thanks, Dad! 😂 But this was different.
I could be standing in front of a crowd, minding my business, and suddenly feel the heat rising. Then came the sweating. No warning. No permission. Just heat!
This was different, and it was yet another symptom of perimenopause that I now had to learn how to navigate.
Clinical Pearl: Hot flashes are also called vasomotor symptoms. During perimenopause, fluctuating estrogen levels can affect the part of the brain that regulates body temperature. The brain becomes more sensitive to even small temperature changes and tries to cool the body quickly by widening blood vessels and triggering sweating.
A few things that may help:
• Dress in light, breathable layers
• Keep a portable fan nearby
• Sip cold water throughout the day
• Keep your bedroom cool at night
• Practice slow, deep breathing when a flash begins
• Track possible triggers such as stress, alcohol, caffeine, spicy foods, and warm environments
If your hot flashes are frequent, intense, disrupting your sleep, or interfering with your daily life, talk with your healthcare provider. Lifestyle changes may help, but hormonal and nonhormonal treatment options are also available.
Sis, when did “she” show up for you, and did you recognize her right away? Share your experience in the comments. Your story may help another woman realize that she is not alone.
Keep listening to your body. Keep asking questions. And keep advocating for yourself, sis. 💜