08/27/2026
Moving Beyond Survival Mode: Trauma, Identity, and Repeating Patterns
Sometimes, the strategies that helped us survive difficult experiences follow us long after the danger has passed.
Avoiding conflict. Keeping everyone happy. Disconnecting from emotions. Expecting rejection. Hiding parts of ourselves. These patterns may have once offered safety—but over time, they can leave us feeling stuck, exhausted, or disconnected from who we are.
Therapy can provide a space to understand where these patterns came from, explore how trauma has shaped your identity and relationships, and decide what still serves you.
You are not broken. You adapted. And when those adaptations no longer fit the life you want, change is possible.
Archie offers in-person therapy in Ankeny and telehealth therapy throughout Iowa for individuals ages 10+.
You don’t have to go through it alone. 💛
Scan the QR code to register on our website. Text or email us directly with any questions you may have. We're here when you're ready.
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