10/25/2026
Being a first-time mom postpartum is one of the most beautiful and vulnerable seasons of life. You’re healing, learning, adjusting, and giving your all, This often is all on no sleep, in a new body, and with a tiny human who relies on you for everything. Here are 7 things I wish every new mom knew walking into their postpartum journey: 1. Prioritize rest (your version of it). “Sleep when the baby sleeps” sounds good, but I say: Rest when the baby rests. That might mean showering, eating, crying, or just lying down. Do what your body needs. 2. Give yourself grace. You’re not meant to bounce back. You’re meant to recover, adjust, and become. You’re doing better than you think. 3. Breastfeeding is beautiful but also hard. Yes, it’s natural, but it’s also a skill that takes time. Whether you breastfeed, pump, combo feed, or formula feed fed and loved is always best. 4. Use your village. Accept help. Ask for support. You don’t have to do it alone, and you shouldn’t. 5. Get out of the house if you want to, but also, you don’t have to. Some days fresh air will save you. Other days, the couch and a nap are just fine. 6. Don’t forget your stool softeners. There’s a reason that we prescribed them. You will get through that first p**p. Trust me. 7. You are still you. Becoming a mom doesn’t erase who you are, but rather, it adds to her. Take time, find space, and honor her too. You’ve got this, mama. I believe in you!! 🫶🏻❤️❤️🫶🏻