08/27/2026
"I've got it." Three little words that carry a world of exhaustion behind them. If you've ever found yourself saying these words while secretly wishing someone would just step in and lighten the load, you're not alone.
Because this isn't about being self-sufficient or a control freak. It's about the fact that asking for help has become its own task. You have to notice what needs to be done, ask someone to do it, explain how to do it, and then follow up to make sure it got done. At that point, you've already done the thing emotionally, even if someone else does it physically.
I know you have someone you probably want to send this to, SO DO IT. RIGHT NOW.
Be specific. Be direct. Normalize talking about mental load and finding ways to share it.
Xo,
Dr. B π