Black is my Mood

Black is my Mood Black is my Mood was inspired by my late sister, Nichole, who died of an accidental fentanyl overdose in Jan 2018.

She struggled with mental health and addiction. Now I am on a mission to try to end the stigma & shame around mental health & addiction.

Truth
03/31/2026

Truth

the first abuse of family courts are the legal fees. all the calls for training don't address this financial abuse. and training is never going to make family courts safer for families.

we need to go to the root cause, the adversarial nature of the courts themselves and the ridiculousness of forcing separating parents into this arena to "solve" family issues.

the ppl who financially profit off of increased conflict and dragging out cases are never going to be the ones with the solution.

those of us who have been through this horror show are the real experts on what families need.

we need a fresh new approach towards helping families who separate. ❤️✊🏾

03/31/2026

Did you know that addiction is classified in the DSM-5? It’s a mental illness that lives in the brain stem: the same brain stem that serves a critical role in regulating certain involuntary actions of the body, including heartbeat and breathing. Addicts feel that they need their drug of choice (DOC) the same way they feel they need to breathe.

Did you know that our society treats addiction as a moral issue and pawns it off on law enforcement to “control”? The average stay in jail being 365 days or less. Where addicts are left to detox alone ?

Did you know the detox process can be violent and result in death if not monitored by medical professionals?

Did you know the addict is many times released, and at that time, their serotonin levels are at their lowest, leading to a high crime rate and a higher chance in relapse. It’s a pun to say that this is criminal but that’s exactly what this really is ....criminal.

It takes an average of 14-16 months of sobriety for an addict’s brain to balance serotonin levels to that of a neuro-typical brain. Did you know that?

Did you know that most insurances will only pay for 30 days of treatment for an addict? Please get mad about that. I’m begging you ...get mad about that.

Did you know that 136 people die everyday from opioid overdose? That’s one person every 10.58 minutes. By the time you’re done reading and processing this post, someone will have died from an opioid overdose.
Someone’s child.
Someone’s spouse.
Someone’s parent.
Someone’s brother/sister.
Someone’s friend.
Someone’s aunt/uncle.

Let that sink in.

Did you know that the two biggest factors that “make” an addict are
(1) Genetic Predisposition and (2) Childhood trauma. There’s not that “one hit” or that “one decision” that will make an addict. You never really know who is or is not an addict before they ever even pick up. It’s NOT a moral problem. I repeat, addiction is NOT A MORAL PROBLEM.

Just for a minute let’s take this in a little bit of a different direction. Did you know that the BRCA gene for breast cancer has a 5-10% genetic predisposition rate? People every day undergo testing and life changing surgeries to avoid it but addiction genetic predisposition is over 50%.
O V E R 5 0 %. Let that sink in.
You still think addiction is a moral problem? A parenting problem?
Too bad there isn’t a surgery to remove addiction huh ?

If there’s one thing an addict would say….it’s that they’re still in there. (I know because I’ve asked.) The person that you knew and loved is still in there.

They are not their disease.

THEY ARE NOT THEIR DISEASE.

Addiction is a disease. Much like diabetes. It has to be monitored everyday. For the rest of their lives. And it’s HARD. It takes support and unrelenting diligence. Like cancer in that it can always reoccur.

The blaming needs to stop. We need to do better.
The paradigm needs to change.
Insurance benefits needs to change.
Public awareness needs to change.

Period.

The next time you hear someone say “ they have a choice “ or you hear others refer to addicts as “ a junkie“ start by educating them because that really is how this works.

You can make a difference you can change things. It starts with educating yourself and then spreading that knowledge one person at a time. Please I beg you join me in this.

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  is exactly the mission of Black is my Mood so I was happy to take the pledge! SAFE Project
11/24/2025

is exactly the mission of Black is my Mood so I was happy to take the pledge! SAFE Project

Keep it up Sammy!
11/18/2025

Keep it up Sammy!

❤️‍🩹Sammy is now 4 years drug free and clean! What a amazing transformation. Let’s give a big shout out to Sammy.❤️

Facts!
08/12/2025

Facts!

When someone dies after being sold a p0isoned product, and people rush to place all the blame on the person who used it while letting the dealer off the hook, that’s not just ignorant, it’s disrespectful. It's a lazy, heartless way to wash your hands of the truth. Someone "chose" to sell a toxic substance. Someone knew it could klll and handed it over anyway. And yet the person who died is the only one people want to hold accountable? That’s not justice, it’s victim blaming dressed up as accountability and tough love. It’s easier for some to point fingers at the dead than to confront the fact that someone out there is profiting off of death. If you can look at that and still think the person who died is the only one responsible, you are part of the problem.

Alyssa Kittendorff
Forever 17 🕊️

08/06/2025
Get caught selling this poison now! You'll lose your life in a different way... 10 year minimum mandatory sentences! Rip...
07/22/2025

Get caught selling this poison now! You'll lose your life in a different way... 10 year minimum mandatory sentences! Rip young man and prayers for your family

07/21/2025

These are great ideas!

07/21/2025
07/21/2025

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