09/09/2026
September is Su***de Prevention Month. Most of us have wondered how to ask someone directly whether they're thinking about su***de, and most of us have talked ourselves out of asking.
Here's what's actually true: asking directly does not plant the idea. It opens a door that was already there.
You don't need the right words. There isn't a wrong way to ask, as long as you ask plainly and listen to the answer without arguing with it.
988 Su***de & Crisis Lifeline — call or text 988, 24/7, free and confidential. Chat at 988lifeline.org. Veterans press 1. Spanish press 2 or text AYUDA to 988. Deaf/hard of hearing: dial 711 then 988.
If someone is in immediate danger, call 911.
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