On The Green Couch

01/29/2024

As you know, I'm the S ex and Relationship Expert on Peacock TV 's new dating show .

I'll be joining the amazing Host, Scott Evans, on IG Live tonight, at 8 pm CST.

Join us for the scoop! Bring your questions!

12/12/2023

I did a thing. Over the past few years, I've been working on my doctorate.

Allow me to re-introduce myself.

My name is:
🎓 DR. SHAMYRA 🎓

So thankful to my loved ones for supporting me. And I'm most thankful to my lover, Jason who always makes it easy for me (I wrote about it in my acknowledgments. See comments).

Now, I rest and carry on as Dr. Shamyra.

I will be presenting my research at the NASW-LA conference in March.

Signed,
Shamyra Howard, DSW, LCSW, CST

11/28/2022

Get yours now.

Check the comments!

08/18/2022

Children's relationships and relationship skills are important to their development and can affect their mental health, especially in school.

Catch me tonight (in a few mins), on Fox 44(WGMB) at 9p.m. cst and again at 10pm cst on NBC Local 33 (WVLA) discussing the mental health of children going back to school.

07/13/2022

S ex vs S exuality?

💎Yep, you know how when you want to rub and kiss on your partner but you decide not to because they're gonna want to go all the way?

💎What about when you want to be rubbed on, fondled and kissed with occassional s exual innuendos or tones, but that's it?

💎That's what and I discussed on this .ly podcast episode.

Go listen! Link in my stories!

06/02/2022

It's Adult S E X ed month!

Let's talk about s ex, in June! Lol.

👉🏾Tell me some topics you'd like to discuss this month! I'll be popping in and out and answering question via stories this month. DM your s ex questions.

👉🏾Some of the biggest things to remember are:

👉🏾👉🏾S ex isn't only in*******se!

👉🏾👉🏾S ex wanes in relationships!

👉🏾👉🏾S ex shouldn't hurt! Unless you want it to.

👉🏾👉🏾You don't have to have s ex!

👉🏾👉🏾You can have all the s ex you want!

👉🏾👉🏾A va**na and a v***a are not the same!

👉🏾👉🏾A va**na DOES NOT need to be cleaned!

👉🏾👉🏾Vulvas aren't supposed to smell like flowers. They smell like v***as!

👉🏾👉🏾Uncircumsized (intact) pen*ses are fine!

👉🏾👉🏾Erectile dysfunction or dissatisfaction can happen at any time.

👉🏾👉🏾Lube is super helpful even when the v***a and va**na gets wetter than the Mississippi river.

👉🏾👉🏾S exual orientation has nothing to do with s exual identity. People can have s ex with whomever they're
s exually attracted to.

👉🏾👉🏾Desire and arousal don't always happen at the same time.

👉🏾👉🏾Children need to learn about s ex early!

👉🏾👉🏾Masturbation is not a sin, a substitute, dirty, nor does it mean a partner isn't enough.

👉🏾👉🏾Porn is not a substitute for a partner, it's only for erotic stimulation; NOT EDUCATION!

‼️Pay for your p**n. It's way better!

03/22/2022

02/25/2022

Are you a mommy?

🤱🏾Need to be around people who get you and the mommy struggle!? It can be a struggle. Especially when it comes to s e x!

🤱🏾Join me this Sunday for an intimate conversation with , the dopest community of black mommies on the the internet. Use my code: TIF100 to get a 100% off your first month to join their exclusive MOMBASSADOR program. See you there. 

Link: https://mommination.com/become-an-official-mombassador/

02/17/2022

If you're a therapist, keep reading!

Therapists: Are there so many moving pieces in private practice and you  aren’t sure where to start or how to grow? 

Or

You can’t find or keep clinicians…the BIG tech companies have invaded our space? 

Or

You’re tapped out on direct practice, and you’re ready for more or the freedom to do less? 

You aren’t sure how to increase income without seeing more clients?

If you answered YES to any of these questions the Purposeful & Profitable Therapist Summit  is for you! 

In this 2 day live virtual  event on February 24th and 25th, you will  learn what is needed to stabilize, scale and expand your business, reach, and income. 

I’ll be speaking at the Summit on being a therapist whose also an Author.

Day 1 focuses on Practice Building topics such as:

Hiring and retention during a pandemic

Protecting your practice (attorney)

ICs vs Employees

Lessons from 7-Figure CEOs

Video Marketing 

Starting a practice: $100k in 90 days

Day 2 focuses on Diversifying Income with topics such as:

Begins with a guided meditation

30 Ways to diversify your income

Therapists in the Media

The event also raises awareness and money! An Award-winning International Hip Hop Artist will be providing a music concert that will raise money to provide mental health services to underserved, uninsured and marginalized clients.

Register below! See you there!

02/17/2022

02/12/2022

Age ain't nothing but a number?

💎Age often affects how we view s e x, engage in s e x, and experience s e x throughout our lives!

💎I've been speaking at a A LOT of events with the 40+ crowd lately!

💎Next week, I'm going to share with college students and more 40+ peeps!

What's your age?

02/08/2022

Ordinary relationships work!

💎What I mean is you don't have to have an IG aesthetic, or a tiktok routine with your partner in order to feel like your relationship is fun, healthy, and valid.

💎You and your partner determines what a healthy and fun relationship looks like to you!

Your relationship is valid even if you:
👉🏾don't post it
👉🏾have conflict
👉🏾don't have s e x every day (most couples don't)
👉🏾aren't taking seasonal trips
👉🏾are dating within your means
👉🏾aren't where you want to be yet

Don't let social media trick you into thinking you have to have/give what someone has. Do you!