Intuitive Healing Therapy

06/05/2026

06/05/2026

I have found that these are some of the best sessions. This also helps reconnect and build trust with your intuition 💜

06/04/2026

“Just let it go” can feel like a second injury.

Because when we say that to someone who has lived through trauma, betrayal, abuse, abandonment, or an overwhelming life experience, we’re often ignoring what trauma does to the brain and body.

This isn’t just a mindset problem. It’s not a lack of willpower.

After trauma, your system changes in response to what happened. It learns to scan, brace, replay, predict, defend, and prepare. Those responses don’t disappear just because someone tells you it’s time to move on.

And when that gets dismissed, whether by other people or by a culture that treats healing like a decision you just need to make, something painful can happen.
You start turning it on yourself.

You shame yourself for not being over it. You judge yourself for still reacting. You wonder why your mind keeps going back. And now you’re not only carrying the original wound. You’re carrying the belief that your response to it is the problem.

But the overthinking, the reactivity, and the feeling stuck may be protection strategies. They may be your system trying to create safety, clarity, or resolution after something still feels unfinished.

And you don’t loosen those patterns by fighting them.
You begin by understanding what they’ve been trying to protect.

That’s what I’m talking about in my free webinar, Why You Can’t Move On, on June 9th. Not how to force yourself to move on, but why your mind keeps going back, why reactions can feel automatic, and what actually starts to loosen the grip.

Comment WOUND for the link or head to the link in bio.

06/04/2026

Just in case anyone out there needs to hear this 🖤

06/02/2026

✨Now Accepting New Clients ✨

If you've spent your whole life being told you're "too much" — too sensitive, too intense, too complicated — and somehow also never quite enough… I see you. And I'd love to work with you.

I'm Whitney Wenglikowski, LMSW, CCTP, founder of Intuitive Healing Therapy. I do virtual trauma therapy for adults across Michigan — the kind of therapist that doesn't flinch at the dark, twisty, complicated stuff. No toxic positivity. No requirement to "smile more", or be small, quiet, and easy.

Just a space that can finally hold all of you.

I specialize in complex trauma and neurodivergent-affirming care, especially for autistic and AuDHD women who've spent years masking and wondering why everything feels so much harder than it looks.

💚Coming soon: Neuro-affirming ADHD & Autism Evaluations for adults. Waitlist is open now.

🖥️ 100% virtual — available anywhere in Michigan

💳 I currently accept most major insurances

Ready, or just curious? Reach out:
📞 (989) 439-0804
✉️ [email protected]
🔗 https://www.psychologytoday.com/profile/1177853

You don't have to do this alone. When you're ready, I'm here. 💜

04/30/2026

04/29/2026

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04/22/2026

A wounded inner child will hold those close to them accountable for abuse committed by prior perpetrators.⁠
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This is done by projecting abusive parents or abuse dynamics onto those close to us, such as our partners or children.⁠
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It mostly goes onto our partners in some of the following examples.⁠
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*Trying to get our partners to be more sensitive to our needs.⁠
*Having big reactions to our partner's problems or quirks.⁠
*Sabotaging, picking fights, or demanding perfection to create distance or superiority.⁠
*Acting out, keeping secrets, or overly protecting our independence.⁠
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The people close to you may have their issues, and you may be with an unsafe or highly dysfunctional partner, but the projection is still there. It's not one or the other.⁠
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Another way to look at this problem is to think of our own parents and why they hurt each other or their children. What were they projecting or punishing the wrong people for their issues?⁠
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Chances are, if you are working on yourself, you might be doing this to much lesser degrees, but the concept is something we all struggle with until we can reparent our inner child around who needs to be truly held accountable for what happened to us.⁠
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The long path to healing revolves around letting people be themselves, seeing who they are, and fully seeing their humanity.⁠
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This can't be done by just trying to shoot for that. We need to check how our inner child views those close to us. What's the narrative about your partner not making that appointment or paying their credit card bill late? Who do they become to your inner child?