04/09/2021
Music and poetry were my first therapists, reflecting back to me the beauty and hurt and loneliness and connection of life, working it through in a way that didn't feel so effortful or frightening. A good poem can hold us, be a salve for our wounds, and push us towards bravery.
This one reminds me of the ways we are all connected...even in our loneliness, even in our suffering, maybe especially so. And how we belong to each other and to something much bigger. May you find your comfort, your connection, your something to ease your loneliness and to bring you tenderness.
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Nothing Wants to Suffer
by Danusha Laméris
after Linda Hogan
Nothing wants to suffer. Not the wind
as it scrapes itself against the cliff. Not the cliff
being eaten, slowly, by the sea. The earth does not want
to suffer the rough tread of those who do not notice it.
The trees do not want to suffer the axe, nor see
their sisters felled by root rot, mildew, rust.
The coyote in its den. The puma stalking its prey.
These, too, want ease and a tender animal in the mouth
to take their hunger. An offering, one hopes,
made quickly, and without much suffering.
The chair mourns an angry sitter. The lamp, a scalded moth.
A table, the weight of years of argument.
We know this, though we forget.
Not the shark nor the tiger, fanged as they are.
Nor the worm, content in its windowless world
of soil and stone. Not the stone, resting in its riverbed.
The riverbed, gazing up at the stars.
Least of all, the stars, ensconced in their canopy,
looking down at all of us— their offspring—
scattered so far beyond reach.