08/08/2026
Where the Horse and Life Meet
To truly ride a horse, in my understanding and experience, is to move in unison with another being whom you cannot control. This requires recognizing the horse as fully capable, autonomous, and ultimately uncontrollable, while remaining autonomous, balanced, in your own integrity while maintaining boundaries.
Perhaps this is where riding horses is like living life: in learning to move with another: without overpowering them, without wanting to exert control, and without surrendering either autonomy, balance, or integrity.