10/01/2026
Right now, stories of sexual violence are being told publicly and in painful detail. Women are saying, “This happened to me, too.” There is rage. Grief. Recognition. And, for some, the validation of finally watching the world become angry about something you once had to survive quietly.
If you have your own history of sexual abuse, assault, coercion, or violation, your body may be responding, even if you haven’t connected the dots yet.
Maybe you’re more anxious. You’re not sleeping. You’re having memories you haven’t thought about in years. You’re angry in a way that feels bigger than usual. You’re tearful, numb, restless, distracted.
Or maybe you’re looking at the people around you differently.
Who believes her?
Who minimizes it?
Who stays silent?
Who speaks up?
Would you believe me?
Would you have protected me?
Are you a safe person for my story?
Sometimes the nervous system recognizes what something means before we have words for it.
And there can be two things true at once: there can be something powerful about survivors telling the truth, about anger finally having somewhere to go, about experiences that were hidden being named out loud..
and it can hurt to witness.
You don’t have to make your anger smaller. You don’t have to know exactly what you’re feeling. But you don’t have to carry it alone.
If you need someone safe to hold some of this with you, Middle Way House has trained advocates available 24/7. You do not have to be in immediate danger or experiencing a current crisis to call.
Middle Way House 24/7 Help & Crisis Line: 812-336-0846
Sometimes taking care of ourselves isn’t about making the feelings go away. Sometimes it’s having somewhere safe to put them down for a minute.