10/16/2026
💜 3 Things to STOP Saying to Someone Living With Dementia
The way we communicate matters. Sometimes, even well-intentioned words can create frustration, confusion, or unnecessary distress.
❌ “Don’t you remember?”
✅ Instead of testing their memory, offer gentle reminders and provide information without pressure.
❌ “Hurry up!”
✅ “Take your time. I’m right here.” Allow extra time to process information and complete tasks independently when possible.
❌ “Stop acting like that!”
✅ Instead of correcting the behavior, try to understand what’s behind it. Pain, fear, confusion, overstimulation, or an unmet need may be contributing.
Remember: Behavior is communication.
A little patience, reassurance, and understanding can make a meaningful difference in the lives of people living with dementia. 💜
At Dynasty Haven, we believe compassionate care begins with understanding.