05/29/2026
š¦ āTheyāre going to die if they donāt eat or drinkā¦ā
One of the hardest and most emotional things families face at end of life is watching a loved one eat and drink less. A question we often hear at Auburn Crest Hospice is:
āCanāt they get IV fluids? Wonāt they die if they stop eating and drinking?ā
This is such an understandable concern, because for most of our lives, food and water equal nourishment, strength, and survival. But at the end of life, the body begins a natural process of slowing down and preparing for transition.
A common hospice saying is:
āPeople are not dying because they are not eating and drinking. They are not eating and drinking because they are dying.ā
As the body begins to shut down, it no longer processes food and fluids the same way. Appetite naturally decreases, thirst changes, and the body often no longer needs or wants nutrition like it once did. In many cases, forcing food, fluids, or even IV hydration can actually cause discomfort rather than comfort.
Extra fluids at end of life can sometimes lead to:
ā¢ Swelling
ā¢ Increased secretions or congestion
ā¢ Shortness of breath
ā¢ Discomfort from the body not being able to process fluids normally
At Auburn Crest Hospice, we encourage food and fluids if someone wants them ā a favorite bite of ice cream, a sip of coffee, popsicles, small sips of water, or favorite comfort foods can still bring joy and connection. But we also encourage families to follow their loved oneās lead and avoid forcing food or drinks when the body is signaling it is no longer able to tolerate them.
The body is incredibly wise. It knows what to do, even when it feels confusing or heartbreaking to those who love them.
Our role in hospice is to provide education, comfort, and support ā helping families understand what is normal, easing fears, and ensuring your loved one is comfortable every step of the way.
š Questions about end-of-life changes? Auburn Crest Hospice is here to help.
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