09/05/2026
Tonight I paddle-boarded into the sunset with a dear friend and colleague, and it felt like such a beautiful counterpoint to what I had been speaking about earlier today with a group in Germany.
Our nervous systems are asked to process an extraordinary amount of information. Sensory information, conversations, decisions, screens, worries, responsibilities, the emotional states of the people around us. Our brains are constantly deciding: What matters? What can I ignore? What should I pay attention to? What can wait?
And sometimes we fall into the habit of trying to respond to all of it (I raise my hand)
But a healthy nervous system isn’t one that is endlessly available!
I want to be able to mobilize when life asks something of me and then genuinely disengage, recover, and restore.
Rest is not stagnation. Rest is an active part of resilience.
Tonight, there was nowhere else to get to except closer and closer to beauty. Just the rhythm of the paddle, the gentle water underneath us, the changing light, conversation and quiet, and the wonderful ease of being with my buddy.
Nervous system health is not another thing that needs to be worked on.
Sometimes it is allowing ourselves, for a little while, to stop working…And paddle into the sunset. 🌅