08/21/2026
Today is National Latina Day.
I’m wearing Taíno-inspired pieces — the symbols of the Indigenous people of the Caribbean, the ones history books tried to file away as extinct.
I think about that a lot in this work.
So much of what I see in my clients isn’t a disorder. It’s inheritance. The nervous system of a woman who learned early that her job was to “aguantar” — to endure, quietly, and not make it anyone else’s problem. Who is capable and competent and exhausted, and who feels so much shame even reading a sentence like this one.
Your body has been running a survival program that was handed to you. It worked. It kept your family going.
And it is costing you something now.
Somatic therapy is how we let the body finish the sentence it never got to finish. Not by talking you out of it — by working with the nervous system directly, so rest stops feeling like failure.
To the Latinas holding everything together today: this is your reminder that you are allowed to be a person, not a service.
Get out of your head. Into your body.
Xoxo
-Sheli