11/04/2026
Every diet told me...
to throw out my M&Ms, or not buy them at all.
Here's how I keep a whole jar of them in my pantry, and I'm about 15 pounds lighter than I was in my keto years.
Diet Dana was too embarrassed to put M&Ms in her cart. My sugar cravings were loud, and on the nights I did eat them, I ate way too many, felt guilty, and promised myself I'd start over tomorrow.
That cycle of food rules and diet restarts went on for years, through keto, Atkins and South Beach.
Different Dana weighs one serving, 28 grams, about 140 calories. I track my macros so I know where it fits in my day, then I put the jar away and enjoy every one of them without the guilt.
Tracking took me time to learn. It isn't complicated, and it's the reason a jar of chocolate can live in my house.
The bigger shift was learning my sugar craving pattern. When I skip protein, when I'm tired, or when I'm stressed, that jar gets loud. When I take care of those three, one serving is plenty.
As a Registered Nurse with 25+ years in women's health, I see this over and over with women in perimenopause and beyond.
Throwing the candy out rarely quiets sugar cravings for long.
Weight loss after 40 doesn't have to mean an empty pantry. You don't have to choose between eating carbs and losing weight. You just need to learn how to eat them with confidence instead of guilt.
That's the idea behind Diet Different™; rather than eliminating or white-knuckling your way through a list of forbidden foods, I want you to discover the amount of food that works for you, your health, and your weight loss goals.
Other diets tell you what to cut out. Diet Different™ teaches you how to keep it.
Finding my own pattern let me keep sweet treats in the house without overindulging or feeling guilty, so it's the first thing I help every client find.
Your pattern is different from mine. Comment PATTERN and I'll send you my free 48-Hour Sugar Craving Pattern Check, so you can see what makes your sugar cravings loud and keep the chocolate you love. That's when weight loss can finally start to happen!