06/19/2026
This is the hardest process for me to master...
Allowing.
As a resourceful high performer I pretty much know one way to get something done. Do it.
If I don't know how, I'll figure it out (but with health it took me four stinking decades but whatever).
My brain is so wired for this that it is taking a Herculean effort to rewire.
I get angry - especially with myself - but guess what?
That's the opposite of what gets results.
So no crap self talk, clear objectives, and consistent forward movement - not rushed, but intentional.