Bussey Holistic Therapy

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05/29/2026

Grief is the experience of being changed by loss. It says to us, "There was a 'before this happened' and an 'after this happened.' I will move forward, but I will never be the same."

Writing about our difficult emotions, including grief, can help us move forward in healthy ways. When we put our difficult experiences into language, research shows that it has an organizing effect. It allows us to see not only the difficult parts of the experience, but what we might have learned or gained, and it helps us to process it.

Grief changes us. It rewrites us. And we in turn rewrite our lives with it.

05/29/2026

Follow these seven steps to get unstuck and live a more meaningful life.

Maybe you’re feeling stuck at work or in a relationship, or you’ve found yourself trapped in an unhealthy cycle of jealousy and frustration.

You own your emotion. It doesn't own you.

05/29/2026

When we’re caught up in the chaos of a difficult moment, it can feel like the stress will never end—like this is all there is.

But that’s not the whole story. Taking the long view reminds us that:
– This overwhelm won’t last forever.
– This moment doesn’t define us.
– And even now, the small choices we make—especially the ones aligned with our values—matter.

Remember: you’re living an arc, not a snapshot.

05/29/2026

Even in the face of this challenge, who do I choose to be?

Life presents us with this question over and over again. It's a gift, really—this opportunity that renews itself, a chance to redefine ourselves with each new hurdle. After all, our growth comes not through denying or suppressing difficult emotions, but by engaging with them, learning from them, and using them as a source of inspiration in our lives.

Emotional agility is the application of all our wisdom, compassion, and courage in the trying moments that test us the most.

05/29/2026

We want to be honest about something that does not get said enough: healing inside a relationship is messy. It does not move in a straight line from broken to whole. It spirals. There are weeks where everything feels clear and hopeful, where we feel proud of how far we have come and genuinely optimistic about where we are going. And then something happens: a familiar argument, a specific tone of voice, a moment of feeling unseen, and suddenly we are back in a feeling we thought we had left behind.

This is not failure. This is not evidence that we have not done enough work. This is how healing actually moves.

The spiral is not returning to the same place. It is returning to a similar place, but from a slightly higher vantage point. We see it a little more clearly each time. We recover a little faster. We are a little less consumed by it. The distance between the wound and the recovery narrows with time and intentional work.

At LoveSecurely, we hold space for the non-linear nature of healing because we have seen how damaging it is when people expect a straight line and then interpret the spiral as defeat. Some of the most transformative breakthroughs we have witnessed in our community came right after what felt like a setback. The setback created the opening. The pain pointed toward the work that still needed doing.

If you are in a season where healing feels like it is going backward, we want you to know that you have not lost what you gained. You are in the middle of the process, not at the end. Keep showing up. Keep being honest. Keep choosing growth even when it hurts. We are right here with you.