07/31/2026
True Care Tips π‘
If your loved one gets upset during toileting when you try to assist with wiping, modesty is one of the most common reasons. This simple tip can help a lot of people.
π½ Cover up first. Place a towel around them during the process. Something as simple as that can make them feel more comfortable and cooperative.
π£οΈ Use simple words. Tell them what you are doing at each step, face them as much as possible and never stand over them.
π Ask permission. It is their body and being touched without warning can feel very scary. Always ask before you assist.
π€ Involve them in the process. Have them place their hand on top of yours so they are connected to what is happening. Try saying "We are going to clean up now." This connects the brain to the action and makes being touched feel less scary.
π©ββοΈ If they physically cannot reach to clean, get an assessment from an Occupational Therapist.
Every person living with dementia is different, so always consult with their doctor or care team to find the best approach for your loved one π
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