09/19/2026
Every culture teaches you what a ‘good mother’ looks like. Mine taught me two different versions — and it took flying home to realize neither one is wrong. If parenting here feels harder than it should, it’s not because you’re doing it wrong. It’s because you’re building the village as you go, instead of being born into one. That’s not weakness. That’s design work — and you’re allowed to be proud of it.
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We were never meant to do this alone. Needing help isn’t the sign something’s wrong with you — it’s the sign something’s missing around you. You’re not less capable than the women who came before you. You just inherited a harder version of the same job.
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Hi! I’m Karolina - a Polish born , US based therapist supporting women through matrescence, postpartum and the in-between of raising kids far from home. I wrote about the parts of motherhood nobody prepares you for- especially the ones that get harder when you are doing it far from home.
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I’ve been there, and I’m here for you. Drop a 🩷, leave a 💬 or simply reach out- I’d love to hear from you!
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