The Healing Latch

The Healing Latch Providing support services & education for Breastfeeding, Birth & Beyond. Certified Lactation Counselor, Certified Birth Doula, Certified Postpartum Doula.

And now the waiting begins… 😭I DID IT!  I officially took the IBCLC exam today! 🎉Months of studying, hundreds of practic...
09/09/2026

And now the waiting begins… 😭

I DID IT! I officially took the IBCLC exam today! 🎉

Months of studying, hundreds of practice questions, over 1,000+ clinical hours, case study after case study, and an absolutely unreasonable amount of lactation information later (but I still want to learn more lol)… I’M DONE!

I walked out feeling pretty confident, so now I’m trying very hard to trust myself and not spend the next 10-12 weeks mentally retaking the exam question by question. 🫠

Whatever the results are, I’m proud as hell of myself for making it to this moment. This has been a BIG goal for me, and today I got one step closer to adding those five letters behind my name.

Now we wait… 🤞🏾🥹

Grateful doesn’t begin to describe how I feel about being able to continue contributing to the conversation and upliftin...
08/31/2026

Grateful doesn’t begin to describe how I feel about being able to continue contributing to the conversation and uplifting Black families during this year’s Black Breastfeeding Week. 🤎

Thank you to Mae Health for inviting me to share my perspective on the role of doula support in breastfeeding and for highlighting the importance of informed, compassionate, and culturally responsive support for Black families.

Black Breastfeeding Week is an opportunity to celebrate, but it’s also an opportunity to keep having conversations that matter about access, support, representation, education, and the experiences of Black families navigating infant feeding.

I’m honored to continue doing my part through education, doula support, lactation counseling, and connection to appropriate resources and care.

Black families deserve to be heard, supported, and empowered throughout their feeding journeys.

08/03/2026
08/03/2026

Breast milk is the ideal first food for a baby.

It's safe, clean and contains antibodies which protect against dangerous illnesses.
☑️ Start within 1 hour after birth
☑️ Breastfeed exclusively for the first 6 months
☑️ Continue alongside healthy family foods until the baby is at least 2 years old

A helpful resource for WNY families preparing for return to school.
07/28/2026

A helpful resource for WNY families preparing for return to school.

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07/17/2026

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One of the biggest breastfeeding myths just refuses to die.

That breast milk comes out as “foremilk” first, which is watery and not very nutritious, followed by “hindmilk,” which is the rich, fatty milk babies really need.

It sounds simple. It even sounds scientific.

The problem is… that’s not actually how breast milk works.

Milk doesn’t separate into “good milk” and “better milk” in the breast. Your breast isn’t storing two different kinds of milk in layers waiting to come out one after the other. Yes, breast milk separates into layers when it sits in the fridge or on the counter for long periods of time, but it’s not sitting in the breast and separating in that same way

The fat in breast milk sticks to the walls of the milk-making cells and ducts. As milk is removed from the breast, more of that fat gets mixed into the milk flowing toward the baby. That means the fat content gradually increases during a feeding. It’s a slow transition, not a dramatic switch where one type of milk suddenly becomes another.

Think of it like orange juice with pulp. If it sits for a while, the pulp settles. As you start pouring and gently move the container, more pulp mixes throughout the juice. There isn’t a magical moment when it suddenly becomes “pulp juice.” It just gradually changes. Or when you turn on the hot water. It gradual goes from cold to hot as it flows.

The exact same thing happens in the breast.

Here’s another important piece that surprises a lot of people.

The fattier milk isn’t determined by how many minutes your baby has been nursing. It’s determined by how full or empty the breast is as well as the time of day

A fuller breast generally produces milk with a lower fat concentration and higher water content to rehydrate the baby. A less full breast has a lower water concentration and higher proportion of fat to help baby sleep and grow.

Research has found that fat content tends to be lowest in the morning and gradually increases throughout the day, often peaking in the evening. This is one of many normal circadian changes in breast milk. Hormones, immune factors, and other components also fluctuate over a 24-hour period.

Does that mean your baby gets “better” milk at night? Nope.

Morning milk is perfectly designed for your baby. Evening milk is perfectly designed for your baby. They’re simply different because your baby’s needs change throughout the day, and your milk changes with them.

This is why pumping exactly 4 ounces in the morning and 4 ounces in the evening doesn’t necessarily mean those bottles are identical. The volume may be the same (or different), but the composition naturally varies.

The amazing part isn’t foremilk versus hindmilk.

The amazing part is that breast milk is a living, dynamic fluid. It responds to breast fullness, the time of day, your baby’s age, and even illness. Rather than thinking of milk as switching from one type to another, it’s more accurate to think of it as continuously adapting from one feeding to the next.

That means a baby who nurses for five minutes on a fairly empty breast may receive milk with a higher fat concentration than a baby who nurses twenty minutes on a very full breast.

Time isn’t the magic ingredient.
Milk removal is.

This is why strict rules like “always nurse exactly 20 minutes on each side so your baby gets the hindmilk” can create unnecessary stress.

Some babies are incredibly efficient and finish a full feeding in 8 minutes.
Some take 30 minutes.
Some prefer one breast per feeding.
Some happily take both.
They’re all normal.

Another myth is that if your baby has green stools or seems gassy, they must be getting “too much foremilk.” While we now call a foremilk/hind milk imbalance “lactose overload”, I’ve only seen it in my practice a handful of times over the years, and always when there is a massive oversupply.

While an oversupply and very rapid milk flow can sometimes contribute to symptoms like frothy stools or frequent swallowing of lactose-rich milk, green p**p by itself is incredibly common and usually isn’t always a sign that your milk is “out of balance.” Babies can have green diapers for dozens of reasons. Occasional green diapers are not a concern. Constant green p**ps along with other symptoms like mucous or blood or rashes do warrant further investigation

The answer usually isn’t trying to somehow force your baby to drink the “right” milk.

It’s figuring out why those symptoms are happening in the first place.

The words foremilk and hindmilk aren’t completely wrong. They are real scientific terms used to describe milk at the beginning and later in a feeding. The problem is how they’ve been interpreted over the years. Somewhere along the way, people started treating them like they were two completely different products instead of simply describing the gradual change in fat concentration during milk removal.

Breast milk is amazing because it is dynamic.
It changes during a feeding and throughout the day.
It changes as your baby grows. Breast milk even changes when your baby is sick.

So if you’ve ever worried that your baby didn’t stay on long enough to “get to the hindmilk,” or you’ve been timing every feeding with military precision because someone told you that’s the only way your baby gets the good stuff, you can let that worry go.

Your body isn’t making two different milks.

It’s making one incredible milk that is constantly changing along with your growing and developing baby.

07/17/2026

Health care in the United States is increasingly team-based, and doulas—who often provide emotional, physical, and educational support for patients during birth, the postpartum period, and beyond—are valuable members of many care teams.

ACOG’s new clinical guidance encourages ob-gyn collaboration with doulas and gives ob-gyns the tools they need to better understand a doula’s role. It also highlights the importance of stronger partnerships between clinicians and doulas, which can provide vital support across the lifespan—including during and after pregnancy—and can lead to better patient outcomes.

Read the press release: https://bit.ly/4flN1Eq

Jérémy Doku chose to be present for the birth of his child. Some questioned the decision… I don’t.For too long, we’ve no...
07/11/2026

Jérémy Doku chose to be present for the birth of his child. Some questioned the decision… I don’t.

For too long, we’ve normalized the idea that fathers should put work first and birth second. But welcoming your child into the world isn’t a distraction from life- it’s one of life’s most important moments.

A father’s presence during birth matters. He supports the mother, advocates when needed, bonds with his baby from the very beginning, and shares in an experience that can never be repeated.

Let’s stop treating fathers as optional guests in the birth room and start recognizing them as active, essential members of the birth team. Showing up for your family is never the wrong call. 🤎

A sports broadcaster criticized Belgian footballer Jérémy Doku for leaving the World Cup to be with his wife for the birth of their son. He went anyway.

The criticism reflected the *very* outdated idea that fathers are spectators in childbirth. Research shows the opposite. When partners are present and engaged during pregnancy, labor, and the postpartum period, mothers experience better emotional support, lower stress, and improved health outcomes, while fathers build stronger bonds with their children from the very beginning.

Doku and his wife, Shireen, welcomed their son, Praise, in London. He is expected to rejoin the Belgian national team in Seattle, and the broadcaster has since apologized following widespread criticism.

Showing up for your partner and your child isn’t taking away from the game. Being present for your family and the people who matter most is part of what fuels greatness.

07/10/2026

Let’s talk about snacks!
What are some convenient ones that you keep around to get through the nursing munchies? 🤔

02/11/2026

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