10/11/2026
“I love my baby. So why don’t I feel the way I thought I would?”
Postpartum depression and anxiety don’t always look like constant sadness.
Sometimes it’s feeling disconnected from your baby.
Feeling numb when you expected to feel joy.
Missing your old life and then feeling guilty for missing it.
Becoming overwhelmed by tasks that used to feel simple.
Feeling anxious, irritable, or constantly on edge.
Having intrusive thoughts that scare you.
Or wondering why everyone else seems to be handling parenthood better than you are.
Postpartum brings enormous changes to your body, sleep, hormones, nervous system, relationships, routines, and sense of identity. And when depression, anxiety, birth trauma, grief, or previous mental health challenges are part of the picture, “just pushing through” may not be enough.
Our latest article explores what postpartum mental health struggles can actually feel like and the different ways treatment can support recovery, including CBT, DBT, trauma-focused work, EFT, mindfulness, meditation, breathwork, and nervous system regulation.
It also talks about something parents may desperately need to hear: struggling with postpartum mental health does not erase the love you have for your baby or determine what kind of parent you are.
If you’ve been waiting to feel like yourself again, we hope this article gives you a better understanding of what may be happening and what support can look like.
No one really prepares you for this part. The part where you finally have your baby… and instead of feeling full, you feel empty. Or overwhelmed. Or disconnected. Or like you made a mistake you can’t undo. You might find yourself thinking: “Why doesn’t this feel the way it’s supposed to?.....