09/01/2026
UPDATED OBITUARY-SHIRLEY WEST
Shirley Rebecca Green West, a woman of deep faith and steadfast prayer, passed away on Saturday, August 29, 2026. Born on July 19, 1938, to Mary Etta and William Monroe Green of Phillip, Mississippi, Shirley was the seventh of eight children. Growing up in a large family on the edge of the Mississippi Delta, she learned the value of hard work early in life whether tending to home-grown fruits and vegetables or helping to “chop” and harvest cotton. Caring for her many nieces and nephews sparked a lifelong devotion to children; she possessed legendary patience and could never bear to hear a baby cry.
At a young age, Shirley also developed a great love, respect, and ability to care for all kinds of animals; this continued for the rest of her life. Whether she was rescuing a stray, nursing an orphaned animal back to health, or simply sharing a quiet moment with her beloved pets, her compassion knew no bounds. Her home was always a sanctuary of safety and warmth, not just for the animals she cherished, but for the family and friends who loved her. Shirley’s gentle spirit and unwavering kindness left an indelible mark on the world, teaching everyone around her the true meaning of empathy.
Shirley’s fierce, protective instinct showed itself even in her earliest years. She absolutely despised bullying and never hesitated to stand up for anyone who was mistreated or overlooked. Family members often shared a favorite story from her childhood on a school bus. Witnessing a group of boys picking on a little girl and leaving her in tears, Shirley stepped in without a second thought. With a signature boldness, she confronted them and declared, “If you’re going to pick on anyone, pick on me and see what you get.” That same fierce, loving instinct to protect others became the cornerstone of her life as a mother and Mimi to her grandchildren and great-grandchildren.
Her life took a beautiful turn at Northwest Community College, where she met the love of her life, Willie Jobe West. On a cold, rainy evening, Shirley stepped out of the dormitory to grab dinner for her “grounded” roommates wearing a raincoat over rolled-up pajamas—and a pair of red high heels. Unbeknownst to Shirley, Willie Jobe had been waiting for the chance to meet her, and that unforgettable night launched a devoted love story spanning over sixty-six years of marriage. Shirley fiercely adored Willie Jobe, always standing by him and reminding her children that there was truly no one like him. The family often laughs about Shirley’s youngest sister, Faye, warning her about “hill people” when Shirley began dating Willie Jobe; but Faye fell in love with Willie Jobe as well and knew he was the one for Shirley.
As a mother and homemaker, Shirley created a sanctuary of safety, warmth, and security. Her four children never once heard her raise her voice or lose her patience while she had thousands of reasons to do otherwise. Before DIY was a trend, she mastered it by stretching dollars with creative holiday projects and bringing joy to her home. She made wonderful memories and messes with her children and grandchildren through the years.
After her children were all in school, Shirley worked as a bank teller in Calhoun City, where her soft-spoken nature and profound words left a lasting mark. She became a quiet confidante to people from all walks of life. Though she kept their secrets safe, community members and friends frequently shared how Shirley’s wise counsel, listening ear, and quiet prayers carried them through their hardest times. Her gentle, grounding presence had a naturally calming effect on everyone she met.
While Shirley was most supportive of Willie Jobe and her children in all events in their lives, they most embrace the times Shirley would read and study her Bible late into the nights. She always had a hunger and longing to intimately know the Lord. Shirley taught many Sunday School and Bible School classes in her lifetime, but her prayer time is what got her and her family through difficult times. Shirley had her own prayer war room and the imprints of her knees in it are still prevailing before the throne of God.
If any one thing could be said of Shirley, it was that she was a woman of few words who consistently used them wisely. She held a deep conviction that the tongue should be guarded, choosing her moments to speak with care and purpose. While Shirley will be profoundly missed by everyone who loved her, her quiet strength and enduring wisdom will be carried forward through the generations.
Shirley leaves behind four children, Melany Taylor of Calhoun City, Jerry West of Oxford, Scott West of Calhoun City, and Stacia Herring (Terry) of Saltillo; twelve grandchildren, Brandon Shankle (Clare) of Stuart, Iowa, Courtney Purvis (Justin) of Stuart, Iowa, Colby Parker (Lauren) of Philadelphia, Evan Parker (Madison) of Brandon, Greyson Parker (Emily) of Mantee, Greta West, Como, Ava West, Como, Kenley Parker, Saltillo, Sophie West, Como, Audrey West, Como, Payton West, Calhoun City and Benjamin West, Calhoun City. She also leaves behind ten great-grandchildren: Lois, Breland, Louisa, Letty, William, Collins, Christine, Spencer Ray, Josie Kate, and Lee, along with many nephews, nieces, great-nephews and great-nieces.
Shirley was preceded in death by her husband, parents, and her siblings.
Visitation will be held Thursday, September 3, 2026 from 1:00 P.M. to 3:00 P.M. at Pryor Funeral Home in Calhoun City. Shirley’s going away celebration will also be held on Thursday, September 3, 2026 at 3:00 at Pryor Funeral Home. There will be no graveside service.
Her going away celebration will be conducted by her family, as requested by Shirley.
Pallbearers will be Shirley’s grandsons.
Honorary pallbearers will be Charles Carey Hardin, James Harold Wright, James Howell, and David Mitchell.
The family extends their deepest gratitude to her special caregivers, Molly Powell, Dolly Gregory, and Lucretia Mounger, who loved and cared for Shirley over the past year until she entered the Veteran’s home a month before her passing. Deep appreciation is also expressed to Jenna Beth Meyers, Jasmine Dorrough Marks, and Tracy Fugett for their compassionate hospice care, immense love, and support.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that contributions be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital or The Gideons International. Shirley proudly supported both foundations because of her profound heart for children and her deep desire to reach those who need Christ.
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