06/21/2026
đź’™ Father's Day isn't the same for everyone. đź’™
Today, we celebrate amazing dads.
But today, we also pause for those whose hearts are carrying a different story.
đź’™ The one grieving the loss of their father.
đź’™ The father grieving the loss of a child.
đź’™ The child who never knew their father.
đź’™ The one whose father was absent, abusive, or unable to love the way they needed.
đź’™ The widow missing the father of her children.
đź’™ The grandfather, uncle, coach, pastor, brother, or friend who stepped in and loved like a father.
đź’™ The man learning to become the father he never had.
đź’™ The families walking through foster care, adoption, estrangement, or broken relationships.
Grief reminds us that love leaves fingerprints on our hearts. Sometimes those fingerprints bring joy. Sometimes they bring tears. Often, they bring both.
One of my favorite promises in Scripture is found in Isaiah 61:3, where God promises to give us "beauty instead of ashes."
He doesn't pretend the ashes aren't there.
He doesn't ask us to ignore the pain.
He gently gathers the ashes of our broken dreams, broken relationships, broken families, and broken hearts... and begins creating something beautiful.
If today is a day of celebration, celebrate with gratitude.
If today is a day of grief, know that your tears are seen.
And if today is somewhere in between, may you remember that our Heavenly Father is the One who "sets the lonely in families" (Psalm 68:6), walks beside the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18), and never leaves nor forsakes His children (Hebrews 13:5).
Whether you're celebrating, grieving, remembering, or simply trying to make it through today...
May you find beauty in the ashes.
Happy Father's Day to every man who has loved, protected, mentored, guided, encouraged, and reflected the Father's heart to someone else.
May God bless you today. 💙🙏