10/15/2026
“…because we don’t just mourn this moment with our child. We mourn tomorrow’s moments, and next month’s moments, and next year’s moments, and their graduation and wedding day and their own children… there are so many moments to mourn. And that is the life of a grieving parent, nuanced and layered and - even when we have joy - we always know, deep in our cells, that someone is missing and that their space in our hearts can never be filled by anything or anyone else.” ~Dr. Joanne Cacciatore
Today, we hold space for the parents who carry a lifetime of love for a baby they didn’t get to watch grow up. For the birthdays and milestones that come and go. For the moments imagined, the memories never made, and the empty space that remains, even in the happiest seasons of life.
On Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day, we invite you to tell us about them.
Your daughters.
Your sons.
Your babies.
What is their name? How old would they be today? When is their birthday or due date? What do you wish more people knew about them?
There is no timeline for grief, and there is no end to a parent’s love.
Their lives matter.
Their names matter.
Their stories matter.
And you matter, too.
To our IBP families, it is a privilege to walk alongside you as you carry the lifelong love for your baby and the ache of their absence in your heart. Whether your loss was very recent, many years ago, or somewhere in between, your baby will always be a part of your story, and we are honored to hold space for you as you carry both the love and the grief.
Today, and always. 🩷🕯️🩵