10/08/2026
“She says she’s fine.”
And she may truly believe that she is.
A short phone call does not always show you that groceries are running low, medications are being missed or getting dressed has become more difficult.
You may not hear that Dad has stopped driving at night or that Mom has been sleeping in her recliner because getting into bed hurts.
This does not mean you should assume the worst or take over.
It means it may be time to ask a few more questions, spend time together in person and pay attention to what has changed.
“I’m fine” can be the beginning of the conversation, not the end of it.