08/14/2026
📚 Book Review: It Didn't Start With You by Mark Wolynn
One of the most powerful reminders this book offers is that our struggles don't always begin with us.
It Didn't Start With You explores how unresolved trauma can be passed down through generations—shaping the way we think, feel, and relate to others, often without us realizing it. Whether or not every theory in the book is supported by the research, it raises an important question: What experiences have influenced the story you're living today?
This perspective aligns with what we often explore in EMDR therapy—understanding the origins of present-day symptoms so they no longer have to define the future.
If you're an EMDR therapist, consultant, or simply passionate about trauma-informed care, this book is a thought-provoking addition to your reading list.
Have you read it? We'd love to hear your biggest takeaway. đź’™