Then this happened

Then this happened Then This Happened is a creative reset for anyone who’s been carrying too much for too long.

It’s our space to pause, breathe, reconnect, and remember what joy feels like again.

Most of us are trying to make important decisions while we're exhausted, scared, emotional, and desperately trying to do...
06/03/2026

Most of us are trying to make important decisions while we're exhausted, scared, emotional, and desperately trying to do what's best for someone we love.

That's really why I created this FREE guide.

Not because I'm an expert.

Because I'm a daughter who learned a lot of things the hard way.

The red flags in this guide are the things I wish someone had pointed out to me sooner.

The questions are the ones I wish I had known to ask.

And the language comes from years of slowly learning how to advocate inside systems that can feel confusing and overwhelming.

My hope is that this guide gives you a little more confidence, a little more clarity, and maybe helps you avoid some of the mistakes and stress that so many of us experience.

Most of all, I hope it reminds you that if something doesn't feel right, it's okay to ask questions.

It's okay to slow the conversation down.

And it's okay to advocate for the person you love.

Get the free guide. Link is in the comments.

Thank you for being here.

06/01/2026

What a 🐝 utiful event!

06/01/2026

The 🐝 Beehive Wreath workshop was unBEElievably fun!! Can’t wait to do it again soon!

06/01/2026

Why didn’t I know about these?!? ❤️😍❤️

A few years ago, I got one of those calls.The kind that makes your stomach drop."We're planning to discharge your mom."T...
05/31/2026

A few years ago, I got one of those calls.

The kind that makes your stomach drop.

"We're planning to discharge your mom."

The problem?

She couldn't walk to the bathroom without help.

She couldn't manage her medications.

And I knew in my gut she wasn't ready.

What I didn't know at the time was that there were questions I could ask, rights I had, and language that would have made a difference.

Instead, I sat there feeling overwhelmed, intimidated, and completely unprepared.

After eight years of caring for my mom, I learned that discharge decisions often move fast, and many caregivers don't realize they have options.

That's why I created a free guide:

5 Red Flags Your Loved One Is Being Sent Home Too Soon

Inside, I'll show you:
# 1 The warning signs to watch for
# 2 Questions to ask before agreeing to a discharge
# 3 The exact words to use if something doesn't feel right

If you're caring for a parent, spouse, or loved one in rehab right now, or you think that conversation may be coming soon, I hope this helps.

Because no caregiver should have to figure this out alone.

Grab the free guide here:
https://themiddlemess.com/discharge/

And if you've ever been through a rehab discharge with someone you love, tell me below. What do you wish you had known at the time?

Most caregivers don't realize it until it's too late: "Medically stable" doesn't mean ready to go home. This guide gives you the words to push back.

Let's create something beautiful.
05/31/2026

Let's create something beautiful.

Red, White, and Hydrangeas! On June 13th
05/31/2026

Red, White, and Hydrangeas! On June 13th

Join us to Create a stunning red, white, and blue hydrangea wreath perfect for Memorial Day, Independence Day, and all summer long.

Here we go! Our next workshop! Join us on June 13th if you're in Charlotte.
05/31/2026

Here we go! Our next workshop!

Join us on June 13th if you're in Charlotte.

Then this happened…brewed coffee for the counter. Yep, forgot the cup.
05/27/2026

Then this happened…brewed coffee for the counter.

Yep, forgot the cup.

Thank you to these amazing women for trusting me enough to come to the very first Creative Reset Workshop. You truly mad...
05/24/2026

Thank you to these amazing women for trusting me enough to come to the very first Creative Reset Workshop. You truly made it feel warm, welcoming, and magical.

And after seeing how much fun we had yesterday… I already cannot wait for the next one. 💛🐝 I can’t wait to see these women again!

If you missed this workshop, don’t worry ! There are more creative reset days coming soon.

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Charlotte, NC
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http://themiddlemess.com/

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