08/08/2026
What does connection mean to you?
How is it woven into your horse training?
A lot of humans like sequences, steps, specific outlines of first this, then that. It makes us feel in control and the predictability can be soothing.
The trouble is, horse training involves another living being. A series of steps, however well intended, is unlikely to produce the result you're seeking. Especially, if you're trying to crank out horses on a scale of mass production...or even a few horses on a specific timeline.
Horses are not machines. They are not robots. Following a "production line" protocol in their training doesn't often end well.
****Side note: many trainers that follow this type of protocol may not actually be seeing the ill-effects of this due to not seeing the horses later in their life, once they've sold them. This is just my opinion, derived from some of my own personal horses being on the backside of this style of training as well as my many interactions with client horses that came out of "machine" type training. ****
Great, and even good, horse training requires something more; heart, relationship, connection...an emotional awareness that creates a willing partnership. This is often what is lacking when a horse-human pair are repeatedly facing challenges or despite all their efforts there appears to be little growth.
Sometimes this is because to have this nuance in our horse training we have to face ourselves and do a lot of personal work - because we, in fact, are blocking our own way forward.
Other times this can be because we have little practice (or little guidance) and just need to give ourselves more time and support to learn.
Emotion, connection, heart, relationship. These are seeming to be concepts getting re-introduced to the common horse owner. They've always been a part of great horsemanship, in the past I believe they've largely been assumed and not specifically taught. When expressed in words, they were typically described as "feel" and "dancing with your horse," both of which are wonderful expressions of the nuance that gives horsemanship its heartbeat.
Some people get uncomfortable when emotion and connection are brought up in horse training, especially when it's noted that those may be the culprit of the shortcomings of the training. Some people like to brush it off or start finding poor examples of people who claim to train with those things in mind - to show that it doesn't work and their machinist type training is more effective.
I think that many people don't like the way I train. I believe in the value of connection, relationship, emotions... and I highly value slow work. I also think that you can have all that AND have boundaries. Furthermore, I think it is futile and damaging to train in a way that ignores the function of the horse's anatomy.
I think training with connection and leaving out boundaries is a fatal approach.
I think training with boundaries and leaving out connection is also a fatal approach.
I think you need both; connection & boundaries.
β¨ If you feel interested in hands-on support that brings connection, boundaries and the anatomy of the horse all together..... There are still 3 participant spaces left for the Stacia Strong clinic next month.
~ BraveHooves π (B)