10/13/2026
TIP TUESDAY with Dr. Delia! 💡 Mom Psychologist had a great post recently about things that we can say to children, and things that caregivers need to say. Sometime's kids have big emotions, sometimes they have trouble listening, sometimes they need a firm plan of action to get through the next, busy ten minutes. As caregivers, it's our job to help guide kids through important seasons of life, such as starting a new school, or simple transitions of a single day, like getting out the door to be on time for soccer practice.
Here are some things that your child needs to hear:
• "It's time to practice listening. Shoes on, please. I'll help you start."
• "Let's take a deep breath first. Our thinking brain works better when it's calm."
• "Let's check in with your body. Are you tired? Hungry? Frustrated?"
• "I hear you. You can tell me how you feel and the plan stays the same."
• "I'm not mad at you. This is my serious voice, which means it's time to pay attention."
• "The reason we hold hands isn the parking lot is so that cars can see you and you stay safe."
• "We're on the same team. I'm on your side."
For kids, hearing things like this helps them feel connection, and these transitions happen in the best way. Which one do you find you already say frequently?
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