07/17/2026
Three things you’ve probably called personal failings — that are actually protection.
Over-apologizing. Bracing at a neutral text. Not being able to rest.
None of these are character flaws. Every one is a nervous system that adapted to keep you safe — and never got the memo that the danger passed.
You’re not broken. Your nervous system is just trying to protect you. 🤍Save this for next time you catch yourself. And send it to whoever you thought of.
I’m Cindy, a trauma therapist (LPC) for people who’ve done the work and still feel it
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