10/07/2026
Something a lot of people with OCD experience is looking back at their childhood and recognizing signs of OCD that they didn’t have a name for at the time.
Our creator, PLEASE EXCUSE MY OCD, experienced this too, but in a particularly heartbreaking way.
When Tyler was just 10 years old, his family home caught on fire. The night before, he’d gotten frustrated with his mom for making him go to bed before finishing a football game and said, “I hate this house.”
When his home burned down the next day, Tyler’s undiagnosed OCD convinced him that his words had somehow caused the fire. He began believing that his thoughts and words could make terrible things happen, and eventually became afraid of having those thoughts at all.
This is an example of magical thinking OCD, which can make someone feel that their thoughts, words, or actions have the power to influence events, even when there’s no connection between them.
Today, Tyler is 32 and understands what he was experiencing as a child. While what happened was incredibly traumatic, he’s since found evidence-based treatment that’s helped him manage his OCD and live a fulfilling life.
We’re grateful to Tyler for sharing his story, and we hope it reminds others that even after frightening experiences and years of struggling with OCD, things can get better.
If you’re struggling with OCD, specialized treatment can help. Book a free call with our team using the link in our bio to learn more and get started today.
When Tyler watched his home go up in flames, he was already experiencing intrusive thoughts, contamination fears, and intense anxiety. At the time, he didn’t know these experiences were connected to OCD, or how much they would affect the way he processed what happened next.
The night before the fire, Tyler was frustrated because his mom had asked him to go to bed before he finished watching a football game. Like many 10-year-olds might, he said some things out of frustration, including that he hated his room, his bed, and his house. He had no idea how much those words would come to haunt him.
The following day, a gas leak in his mother’s car caused a fire that spread through their home. It was an incredibly f