06/23/2026
Love this!
Truth!
Babies can't learn to walk without support. Every baby should have a standard, big box walker so they learn to walk. Sure, babies are hard wired to learn to walk but we simply cannot trust them to do so. Nope.
Sounds a bit ridiculous, huh?
In reality, we coach and coax and support and clap as our babies pull themselves up and wiggle, and eventually, take off walking. It's a process which doesnt happen overnight and the range of normal varies quite a bit.
We also recognize that some children DO need help walking. When that's the case, we have interventions available like orthotics, physical therapy, occupational therapy, and yes, walkers BUT they're designed properly and specifically for the child's needs.
But outside a child NEEDING professional support, we simply trust they will learn to walk with a little support from their family and a lot of inate curiosity.
So, if birth is also a normal human function, why do we not trust that *most* bodies are capable of doing it without lots of intervention? Why do we not trust the range of normal?
Our culture suggests that intervention is the rule rather than the exception. Our birth culture tells us not to expect things to work out.
What if we treated birth like learning to walk? We pull up to prepare. We experience a bit of starting and stopping with early dilation. And as long as things progress in the normal range (37+0 to 42+0), without signs of concerns (good vitals for mom and baby) we just trust that birth can happen? That our bodies are meant to tackle this.
Just like a kiddo learning to walk, the support is there if we need it. We can start slow with a hand. And only if there's a problem or a sign (e.g. a known challenge) we add in a tailored intervention specific to the problem at hand rather than a cheap one size fits all approach.
No one is saying interventions are inherently wrong. No one is saying everyone can and should have a physiological birth. But isn't it a bit odd we trust *some* aspects of the human body and not others?
What if it became the norm to expect birth to go well, and start and progress on its own, while having the interventions available only as needed /desired?