10/20/2026
A Relationship with Yourself Begins with Coming Home to Yourself
Changing a thought is not the same as changing your awareness.
Our thoughts are habitual mental activities that arise automatically from constantly observing our external world. During the day, you have things to do, places to go, things left undone from yesterday, and things to prepare for tomorrow. The nature of the mind is like a popcorn machine: the more we think, the more thoughts there will be.
Awareness is not your thoughts. It is the inner recognition of the unease, the burden, and the frustration that things and demands seem never done, even though you give it all you have. The days go by quickly, and there is never enough time to do it all. You think, and then the thoughts turn negative, and you feel dissatisfied, as the hope of getting things done so you can finally arrive at peace or relief feels far away.
The good news is that you are not your thoughts, and you are not the feelings attached to them. You are the awareness, the sky, the unlimited potential. You can imagine those thoughts and feelings as clouds flowing across the sky. They are just hanging up there. You don’t need to pay attention to every single thought, wait for it to disappear, or fix each cloud so things can get better. Bringing your attention home is a practice of inner space: let there be space, and be free from the endless thoughts that cloud the mind.
The practice of meditation is the practice of inner observation and detachment. It is just like yoga. Reading about yoga, understanding the concept of yoga, or watching other people do yoga is all good, but it is not you.
You are not what you know, but who you are
If you are patient, you will show up patiently in a situation that is hard for anyone to be patient in, because you have the inner capacity and understanding for it. Patience is who you are, not what you know. Practice is the key to everything in life that we want to master, especially the invisible parts of it. It is always easier to get mad than to be patient. It can even feel great to get mad and throw things around, but it is not always the wiser choice for us. Meditation is an inner practice.
Meditation is a practical way to build the skill you want in your life. Take driving, for example. Without learning how to drive, the vehicle is useless to us. So you would not expect to drive after one session, or feel discouraged on the first day and decide you will never drive in your life. Most people don’t realize they are focusing on becoming good at the practice instead of on why they practice: the end goal. To drive is to have freedom. Meditation is the first step toward mental and spiritual freedom. It is a skill that needs your willingness and your practice. You can sit still, or you can move around your house, for you and your awareness are inseparable.
What you experience during practice is an invisible training inside of you
1, Coming home through guidance. Our mind can feel like a wild horse living inside of us. Being guided is like someone putting a loop around the horse and gently walking him back to where he can stop running and be at ease.
2, Staying present and going deeper and deeper below the surface. Most practices are not sustainable because there is only doing, without transforming your inner state. For our mind to become still and feel spacious requires practice, not reading and understanding the concept. So practice your awareness, not your thoughts.
3, Meditating at night. Night is the best time to meditate in modern life, and being consistent is the key. Not right before sleep, but at least one hour before you go to bed: stop reading books and watching the news or videos, and allow your mind to slowly empty and get ready for a deep, reparative sleep. Meditation and sleep are the key partners that repair and renew your whole system.
Tuesday | Tuning In: Train Your Mind to Work for You Here
7:00–8:30 p.m. CT | Live on Zoom for 12 people
Date: 9/29- 12/15, 2026
https://www.yogaindemun.com/tuning-in-train-your-mind-to-work-for-you