Family Life Consultants

Family Life Consultants Counseling services for individuals aged toddler to senior adult, families, couples, and groups.

FLC strives to empower clients to make lasting positive change in their lives. If you are seeking services, please fill out the New Client Request form.

On this Mental Health Monday, we are focusing on self-esteem!What is self-esteem? Self-esteem refers to how we view and ...
06/22/2026

On this Mental Health Monday, we are focusing on self-esteem!

What is self-esteem? Self-esteem refers to how we view and think about ourselves and the value we place on ourselves as a person.

What are indicators of low self-esteem?

Frequent self-criticism: Someone may criticize themselves, their actions, and abilities or joke about themselves in a negative way. They may put themselves down, doubt themselves, or blame themselves if something goes wrong.

Ignoring positive qualities: When compliments are given to them, they might brush such comments aside. Instead, they might focus on what they didn’t do or the
mistakes they made.

Negative emotions: A person with low self-esteem might often feel sad, depressed, anxious, guilty, ashamed, frustrated, and angry.

Relationship problems: In their personal relationships, people with low self-esteem might become upset or distressed by any criticism or disapproval, bend over backwards to please others, be extremely shy or self-consciousness or even avoid or withdraw from intimacy or social contact.

Impact on work or study: A person with low self esteem might consistently achieve less than they are able to because they believe they are less capable than others. They might avoid challenges and opportunities for fear of not doing well. They might find it hard to believe any good results they get are due to their own abilities or positive qualities.

Happy Father's Day to the dads, stepdads, grandfathers, father figures, and caregivers who show up with love, patience, ...
06/21/2026

Happy Father's Day to the dads, stepdads, grandfathers, father figures, and caregivers who show up with love, patience, and support. The small moments of connection, encouragement, and presence make a lasting impact!

Wishing all who celebrate a happy Father's Day.

This Juneteenth, we honor freedom, celebrate resilience, and reflect on the importance of justice and belonging. Healing...
06/19/2026

This Juneteenth, we honor freedom, celebrate resilience, and reflect on the importance of justice and belonging. Healing happens not only individually, but within communities that acknowledge the past and work toward a more equitable future.

On this Mental Health Monday, we are looking at the cycle of avoidance.Let us use the example of p***c speaking.You are ...
06/15/2026

On this Mental Health Monday, we are looking at the cycle of avoidance.

Let us use the example of p***c speaking.

You are asked to give a presentation at work or school. This triggers feelings of anxiety: racing thoughts, physical symptoms, feelings of dread. Our natural reaction to something we do not want to do is to avoid it.

You may tell your boss or teacher that you are sick and are unable to give your presentation. That gives you a major sense of relief! Your discomfort is lessened and those feelings of anxiety may go away.

The problem is your boss or teacher tells you to present the next week. Now your anxiety is intensified because you begin to associate avoidance with feeling better. As a result, the next time you have to give the presentation, your anxiety is worse and it is more tempting to use avoidance.

It's very important that we use coping skills and other tools to help us work through those feelings of anxiety, so we do not get stuck in a cycle of avoidance.

What are the skills you use to help work through feelings of anxiety? πŸ’­

On this Mental Health Monday, we are focusing on stress management!Everyone, at some point in their lives, has struggled...
06/08/2026

On this Mental Health Monday, we are focusing on stress management!

Everyone, at some point in their lives, has struggled to manage stress effectively. Here are some tips to help keep things in check:

Stress isn't always a bad thing! Stress motivates us to work towards solving our problems. Reframing thoughts to view stress as a tool can help reduce negative feelings associated with it.

Set time aside for yourself. Personal time can be neglected when stressful times occur. If you can't set time aside for yourself, other areas of life may suffer too.

Keep things in perspective. In the heat of the moment, small problems can seem very big. Try taking a step back and looking at the broader picture.

Prioritize your responsibilities. Focus on completing quick tasks first. Quickly knocking out small tasks will clear your mind to focus on larger responsibilities.

Talk about your problems, even if they won't be solved. Talking about your stressors can reduce negative feelings towards stress.

Focus on the basics. Stress can start a harmful cycle where basic needs are being neglected or forgotten about. Make a point to prioritize basic needs, like eating and sleeping.

Try not to focus on everything at once. Balance your time and energy between different life areas to help relieve some stress!

Happy Pride Month from Family Life Consultants! 🌈
06/03/2026

Happy Pride Month from Family Life Consultants! 🌈

On this Mental Health Monday, we are discussing healthy relationships!Relationships can be platonic, romantic, or famili...
06/01/2026

On this Mental Health Monday, we are discussing healthy relationships!

Relationships can be platonic, romantic, or familial.

These are just a few signs of a healthy relationship:

- Empathy for each other: taking the other person's perspective and understand their feelings, even if you do not always agree

- Safety: respecting each other's boundaries

- Conflict resolution: taking responsibility for your actions, and work as a team to solve problems

- Teamwork: the relationship is balanced, with equal effort on both parts

- Mutual support: treating each other with compassion and care

- Individuality: having your own interests and goals separate from each other

- Trust in each other: having a mutual bond that gives a sense of security

- Effective communication: communicating your own needs and wishes,
while respecting the other person's needs and wishes

On this Mental Health Monday, we pause to remember and honor those who gave their lives in service to our country.Today ...
05/25/2026

On this Mental Health Monday, we pause to remember and honor those who gave their lives in service to our country.

Today we hold space for the many ways this day can be felt.

For some, it’s a time of pride and gratitude. For others, it carries grief, loss, or quiet reflection.

Take time to slow down, reflect, and care for yourself in whatever way you see fit.

Mental Health Monday- SleepSleep hygiene is the practice of good sleep habits. Tips for better sleep:- Get regular: gett...
05/18/2026

Mental Health Monday- Sleep

Sleep hygiene is the practice of good sleep habits.

Tips for better sleep:

- Get regular: getting up and going to sleep at the same time every day promotes healthy sleep cycles
- Avoid caffeine later in the day
- Use your bed for sleep only: your body will associate your bed with sleep and relaxation, not wakefulness
- Ensure your space is comfortable: dark and quiet spaces are best for quality sleep
- Turn off screens: blue light emitted from screens can disrupt your body's natural sleep cycle
- Don't force it: if you haven't fallen asleep after 20 minutes, get up and do a relaxing activity, like journaling or reading.

Self-care check in! How are you taking care of yourself today? Post your answers below 😁
05/14/2026

Self-care check in!

How are you taking care of yourself today? Post your answers below 😁

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