06/17/2026
A reminder for the siblings.
If you have a neurotypical sibling of an autistic child or adult, summer is hard on them too β and often in ways nobody talks about.
π They may quietly skip the pool because last time "didn't work"
π They may take on adult-level emotional weight you didn't ask them to carry
π They may resent their sibling and feel guilty for resenting them
π They may need a friend's house this weekend more than you realize
Things that help:
πΏ Carve out 1-on-1 time with the sibling β even 30 minutes a week
πΏ Name the hard parts out loud ("It's okay to feel mixed about your brother sometimes")
πΏ Connect them to a sibling support group β Sibshops exists for this exact reason
πΏ Don't make them the third caregiver. They get to be a kid.