09/03/2026
First post for “September Sabbatical” on the Second Spring Chronicle:
“Happy September from across the pond, where there is a plethora of pubs, peas, and pints! The people are pleasant. The parks are peaceful. I could keep going with the Ps, but I’ll stop for now. 🙃
Here we are: September Sabbatical.
It had been on my calendar for a long time—a planned month away from daily life and routines, known labels and titles, familiar people and places.
I wanted a few weeks to live alone, explore new things, and clear my head after officially becoming a real empty nester. My children are now college graduates, and neither plans to return home.
This is not a problem. We raised them hoping they would spread their wings—and they have. Yay us!
But looking back, I can see that the last four years were only stepping stones toward this moment. As my children begin their next chapters as young adults, I find myself beginning one, too. It feels like a good time to ask these questions again:
💛 Who am I, really?
💛 What do I want, really?
The difference between my children and me is that I have a few more years of life to use as reference. The downside, of course, is that I have also accumulated far more opportunities to create excuses and limitations, responsibilities and expectations.
What might I see if I could look at my life with fresh eyes, a clear head, and a healed heart?
That was what I hoped to discover during this time away—my “gap month,” so to speak.
So far, however, September Sabbatical is not unfolding as I planned!”
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