Mary Smith Live Chaos Free

07/29/2026

They didn't cover this in coach training: the child who won't start, the parent who calls it defiance, and the label you almost take at face value.

Initiation, motivation, and demand avoidance look nearly identical from the outside, and naming the wrong one keeps a family stuck in conflict and shame. ""Initiation, Motivation, and Demand Avoidance: The Mistakes Parents (and Coaches) Make with Neurodivergent Children"" is about the part of a child's behavior that a single label doesn't reach.

Virtual · October 1–3, 2026 · CCE hours · Super Early Bird $199 through July 15, then $249.

Register: https://addvanceconference.com/event/registration/

07/25/2026

Big shout out to Daniella Karidi, PhD. and her podcast ADHDtime. Finally a podcast that asks experts to bring the science behind addressing the real-world challenges of ADHD.

I was happy to contribute the science behind why rewards and punishment only add to the dysfunction instead of building the skills needed to thrive.

Add ADHD Time on Air to your podcast rotation!

🎙️ New Episode of ADHDtime on Air!

What if one of the most common parenting strategies for ADHD is also one of the least effective for building lasting skills?

In Episode 17 of ADHDtime on Air, I sit down with fellow ADHD coach Mary Smith to discuss why rewards and punishments may not be the best approach for supporting children with ADHD.

Instead, we explore what it looks like to focus on skill development, internal motivation, emotional regulation, and realistic expectations, while also supporting parents through the challenges of burnout.

In this episode, we discuss:
• Why ADHD is a developmental disorder rather than simply a behavior problem
• Why rewards and punishments often backfire
• Building skills instead of chasing compliance
• Practical strategies for reducing parent burnout
• Creating a supportive home environment where children can thrive

Whether you're a parent, educator, coach, or clinician, I hope you'll find practical ideas that you can apply right away.

🎧 Listen here: https://adhdtimeonair.riverside.com/e/adhd-parenting-why-rewards-and-punishments-often-backfire

If you enjoy the episode, I'd be grateful if you shared it with someone who might benefit from the conversation.

06/10/2026

I met Tamara Rosier years ago at an ADHD Coaches Organization (ACO) conference in Phoenix years ago. We instantly clicked on so many levels - personally, philosophically. It was like meeting my sister from another mister!

It has been a joy to watch her grow into the force for good she is today!

Imagine how proud I was when she said "yes" to our request for her to kick-off the ADDvance Conference in October.

Come listen to her speak @10:00 am ET on October 1, 2026.

Registration is open https://addvanceconference.com/event/registration/

05/24/2026

My work has been growing in a really meaningful way, and I’m excited to start sharing it through more through speaking—and with a brand that better reflects the mission behind it.

I’m still coaching families every day, helping parents move from daily struggles to calmer, more connected relationships where kids can build real skills and independence.

If you know a school, group, or organization that could use a fresh perspective on motivation and ADHD, I’d love to be connected 💛

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