08/12/2020
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Are you struggling in your marriage today? Have you or your spouse been in arguments, fighting or have you maybe even come to the point in giving up on your marriage? Have you done your spouse wrong or treated your spouse like they didn't deserve to be treated. Have you recognized your mistakes and turned from your ways in sin.Have you turned your sin over to turn to a higher power. Our Heavenly Father. To ask Christ Jesus for strength to be the better person inside of you that you truly are? Have you asked God to Forgive you for your own sins, to give you forgiveness in your own heart to forgive your spouse for the wrong He/She may have do to you. Always pray for each other. Ask God to help your spouse To be a better spouse for you. to be your other half. (To complete you) God tells us not to seperate yourself from your spouse to heal or work on yourself but when you get married you two become one flesh.The Bible tells us over in (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10) that "Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor. If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up that you caused?" Verse 9 closes with these words: “…for they can help each other succeed.” How do you define success in a marriage? Immediately, My mind goes to helping your spouse be the better person you know they are. do you see amazement in your spouse that no one else can or that no one else clearly has. have you seen the true loving, kind, gentle, amazing person that you know your spouse is.. clearly that alone is a reason to want to keep your marriage. it's a reason you should want to keep by your spouse and stand by them in the good and the bad. If they done you bad and clearly you know they are that amazing person. Don't give up because you seen bad. because that is struggling together and it builds strength to hold it together.If you have happiness from the better part of your spouse hold onto it because if you give up on them then you are giving up on your own true happiness.Therefore alone you won't even be Truly happy. Selfishness. Is also a bad problem in marriages one may do the other wrong and then that spouse becomes selfish towards another because of the Devil. he is selfish and when you marry you loose your selfishness. You become selflessness and Put your spouse first. You aren't supposed to give up and become selfish with your spouse when you have troubles. Like for instance. If you get into an arguement and your spouse realizes what they did. if they want to apologize for it don't be selfish and avoid there apology because you are taking that person inside that is sweet and amazing and turning that person into a bad person. That though makes us even more of a bad person for Taking that apology and turning it into another negative scene. So remember when you feel hurt and you want to seperate from your spouse because you feel selfish and don't want to give them the oppertunity to allow them to be selfless and put you first and foremost like any spouse should if they do the other wrong. Is just as wrong as the person that's actually trying to apologize and show you they Are in fact sorry. One thing in relationships and marriages is selfishness. if you take that person from the one you love that has remorse, understanding, and compassion in asking to be forgiven you are giving them a part that makes them someone that they nor you want them to be. So always remember if they are bad it's not always just your spouses fault it's your own fault, As well.
Never be as selfish to take away the person you love so kindly and make them into a person you don't see as love.
If you love your spouse you take responsibility for your own actions. Don't blame others for what you did yourself also. when you argue it sometimes can be the wrong thing just to walk away because as fast as you turn the other could be as fast to realize what they did wrong. never just walk away.
Our Lord says over in (Ephesians 4:32) "Always be kind and compassionate to one another, and forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you. when you do wrong in your marriage. Always ask God to forgive you for your sins. Most of all ask, your spouse to forgive you for whatever it was that you may have done Wrong. And if they love you they will forgive you. Succeed in your Marriage! Success isn’t defined by the number of zeroes in your bank account. Rather, it’s a reflection of our love for each other, the way we lean on each other, and the way we complement each other’s’ weaknesses.
Together, we help each other succeed in this crazy thing we call life. Thats what part of a marriage is. you dont walk away or give up together you shall withstand anything. like a house devided in half shall fall...When one of us falls, the other is there to reach out and help. She’s called this my “talking her off the ledge” moment and I don’t share it to say “look at me!” Rather, it’s a great illustration of working to overcome adversity. Together as a married couple. Simply put, I value my wife more than that. Together, I’m stronger with her: why should I buy something material that would make her unhappy? I think it’s important to reiterate: Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 applies to everyone. It establishes the principle of having an accountability partner. Remember, verse 10 highlights that without someone to stand with you, you’re in “real trouble.” I encourage anyone who does have a spouse if you are apart I ask you find that person you can lean on in times of crisis. I’m sure there are days when I’m unloveable. But, it’s my prayer that I demonstrate this verse in my attitude towards Jezlyn — in good times or in bad. Will you join me in laying aside life’s difficulties as we commit, together, to be even more Christ-like in our marriages? Stick around we will talk more later about staying committed and letting our fears go. Faith casteth out all fears. don't give up on your marriage you give up on God. He never has given up on us. with putting faith in Our Father.
