09/04/2026
We romanticize relationships so much that it’s easy to believe that if ours doesn’t feel a certain way, something must be wrong. But relationships aren’t supposed to be perfect. They can be complicated, disappointing, deeply meaningful, boring, exciting, frustrating, and still be the right one for you.
Sometimes, we’re so focused on finding the right relationship that we miss the meaning that can be found in the one we’re actually living. We don’t need to stop wanting more from our relationships. But we might ask ourselves whether we’re chasing an ideal or making space for something real. Because a meaningful life, and a meaningful relationship, doesn’t require perfection.