09/04/2026
The 1st Step is the Hardest
Last week, we talked about the fact that the 1st step to growing awareness is seeing yourself. However, the HARD part is STAYING with yourself. Once you see the “faults, flaws, mistakes, etc.” can you handle it? Or do you avoid?
Are you so focused on being a “good person” that you never think about your own needs and desires? Many of us are falsely taught that the measure of goodness is how much we give to others. But you can’t pour from an empty cup. Self-Abandonment is not an act of selflessness; it’s actually self-sabotage. It hinders you from seeing and responding clearly in Don’t Want situations.
You are your best self when you are present in your true wants, desires, and goals. Those of you who have taken up this journey of finding your WAY back to self are the bravest souls out there. Today’s is a moment of congratulations to you! I’m proud of each of you who has shifted from other to self. That is HUGE! Congrats, the hardest part is over.
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