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Dr Alduan Tartt Licensed clinical psychologist and minister. Dr. Tartt also host radio and television shows and is a frequent guest on major media outlets.

Dr. Alduan Tartt is the go to psychology, relationship, marriage and mental health expert helping you to date better, build better marriages, achieve healthier minds from a faith-based and clinical perspective. Christian Psychologist helping you create thriving relationships. |

Dr. Tartt is a clinical psychologist with a focus on faith, mental health and relationships of all sorts (single, dating, marriage, family, sports, etc.). Dr. Tartt has a private practice and also speaks frequently at conferences, churches, organizations on improving relationships, families and mental health. Dr. Tartt also counsels other healers and helpers (pastors, ministers, doctors, entertainers) who need to be encouraged, supported and filled up too.

10/24/2026

Have you ever met someone who became dramatically more attractive the moment they started talking?

You might be sapiosexual.

A sapiosexual is someone who experiences strong attraction to intelligence, intellectual stimulation, and the way another person thinks.

As a clinical psychologist, I think there’s an important distinction here:

It’s not always intelligence alone that creates chemistry.

It’s often curiosity.

Someone who asks great questions.

Someone who wants to understand how you think.

Someone who introduces you to new ideas, makes you laugh, challenges your perspective, and leaves you thinking about the conversation long after it ends.

Research on curiosity and relationships suggests that genuine curiosity can increase feelings of closeness and attraction because it communicates something powerful:

“I’m interested in who you are.”

That matters in dating.

Physical attraction may make you notice someone.

But for some people, intellectual chemistry is what makes them want to stay.

You may not be “too picky.”

You may simply need a relationship where your mind feels stimulated before your heart fully opens.

So I’m curious:

What makes someone MOST attractive to you?

A. Physical chemistry
B. Intelligence
C. Emotional depth
D. Humor
E. Curiosity and great conversation

Comment your letter below—and tell me what makes someone unforgettable to you.

10/24/2026

Men don’t remember the prettiest woman in the room. They remember the one who was most curious about his life.

The actual term is sapiosexual and really focuses on intellectual and sincere curiosity about someone on the highest level.

Be honest, what attracts you more?

A great conversation
Great looks
Both

Are you a sapiosexual and what do you need MOST right now for someone to ask you about sincerely?

10/24/2026

What if good men aren’t finding you because you’re not making yourself easy enough to find?

Comment STRATEGY if you’re ready to increase your opportunities to meet quality men without chasing them!

Proverbs 18:22 says, “He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.”

But ladies, this Scripture does NOT mean you have to sit at home waiting for a man to magically appear!

As a clinical psychologist, I want to teach you the psychology of making yourself FINDABLE!

Here are 3 research-backed principles:

1. PROXIMITY CREATES OPPORTUNITY.

Want a professional man? Attend networking events and business conferences.

Want a family-oriented man? Participate in community and family-friendly activities.

Want a man passionate about ministry? Attend ministry conferences and church events.

Ruth didn’t meet Boaz sitting at home. Their paths crossed while she was actively living her life!

2. FAMILIARITY CAN INCREASE ATTRACTION.

Psychologist Robert Zajonc studied the “mere exposure effect,” showing that repeated exposure can increase liking.

Translation? Being around compatible men regularly gives them opportunities to notice you, become familiar with you, and potentially develop attraction.

Stop relying on ONE magical encounter. Create opportunities for connection!

3. GIVE MEN A SIGNAL YOU’RE INTERESTED!

Researcher Monica Moore found that women who displayed more nonverbal signals of interest were approached more frequently.

Ladies, smiling, making eye contact, and showing genuine interest can encourage a man to approach.

You don’t have to chase him. But you CAN make it easier for him to pursue you!

And once he approaches, make your HEART findable, too! Be warm, authentic, and appropriately vulnerable as trust develops.

Faith doesn’t require passivity. You can trust God AND position yourself for the relationship you’re praying for!

LADIES, BE HONEST: Are you putting yourself where quality men can actually FIND you, or are you waiting for love to knock on your door?

Let’s talk!

10/21/2026

Want to become the kind of partner someone feels blessed to have in their life? Learn how to bring out the BEST in the person you love without trying to change them!

One of the most attractive qualities you can bring to a relationship isn’t your looks, money, or success. It’s your ability to help someone become a better version of themselves.

As a clinical psychologist, I love teaching the Michelangelo Effect, a research-backed principle showing how romantic partners can positively influence each other’s personal growth.

Here are 3 ways to become the kind of partner people desire:

1. See the greatness in your partner. Recognize their strengths, affirm their character, and remind them of their potential, especially when they struggle to see it themselves.
2. Support their dreams. Encourage their goals, believe in their abilities, and celebrate their progress. Be the person who makes them feel more capable, not less.
3. Inspire instead of criticize. Constant criticism can create defensiveness and distance. Encouragement, appreciation, and emotional support create an environment where both people can grow.

Proverbs 27:17 reminds us, “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.”

Here’s what I want both men and women to understand:

The goal isn’t to find someone you need to fix. It’s to become the kind of partner who brings out the BEST in someone who is already committed to growing.

Great relationships don’t just make you feel loved. They help you become the person God created you to be.

LET’S TALK: What’s ONE thing a romantic partner can do that brings out the absolute BEST in you?

Share your answer in the comments. Your response might help someone become a better partner!

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10/20/2026

Have you ever met a man you’re REALLY attracted to, wanted him to notice you, but suddenly started questioning whether you’re pretty enough, interesting enough, or good enough for HIM?

Comment “FASCINATE” and I’ll send you my dating blueprint to help you flirt confidently, attract quality men, and show interest WITHOUT chasing!

As a clinical psychologist, I want you to understand something: Your fear of rejection may be keeping great men from experiencing the amazing woman you really are!

Research on the “spotlight effect” shows we overestimate how much others judge us. And the “liking gap” reveals that people often enjoy conversations with us more than we realize.

So while you’re worrying, “Does he like me?” you may be missing an opportunity to show him what makes YOU special!

Ladies, stop focusing so much on being chosen and start recognizing what a gift YOU could be to the right man.

Remember 2 Timothy 1:7: “For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.”

Now let’s talk!

Ladies, what’s harder for you: approaching a man you like skillfully and taking your chances or not getting enough attention when you go out or online?

Men, do you notice when women get nervous around you? Does it affect whether you approach or do you like it?

Let’s hear both sides in the comments!

10/19/2026

Ladies, what if the man you WANT to approach you is just simply waiting for your GREEN LIGHT?

Comment “Fascinate” and I’ll send my dating strategy for flirting with men you’re attracted to WITHOUT chasing them!

Ladies, is making the first move CONFIDENCE or DESPERATION? Let’s discuss:

As a clinical psychologist, I want women to understand something important about the psychology of attraction:

A man can find you beautiful, attractive, and interesting and STILL not approach you!

Why? Because he does not know whether you’re interested, available, or open to talking.

And many women unintentionally give off a RED LIGHT when they actually want a man to approach!

Here’s the secret: You don’t have to pursue a man to make it easier for him to pursue YOU!

✅ Make eye contact and smile.

✅ Give him an opening to start a conversation.

✅ Ask a simple question or make a playful comment.

✅ Show warmth and interest, then allow him to take initiative.

That’s not chasing. That’s creating an opportunity!

Stop expecting men to read your mind. You can be feminine, confident, selective, AND approachable. I’ll show you how…

Now, ladies, I want to hear from you: Should women give men the green light, or should a truly interested man approach WITHOUT encouragement?

Men, jump in too! Does a woman’s smile or friendly conversation make you MORE likely to approach her?

Reply to each other! I want to hear both perspectives.

My personal vote when I was dating- Smile, be assertive and direct, and be warm (nice with high standards).

10/19/2026

How to Make Successful Attractive Men Pursue You Without Being Obvious

Flirting is a skill and a welcomed one from men if you do it correctly.

Watch and learn…

Ladies, how comfortable do you feel with flirting with men to get quality dates and have fun while socializing?

10/19/2026

Men Wish Women Would Speak More Often To Get To Know You…

The key to mastering dating is to improve your charisma and charm.

Can you make a brother feel interesting, funny, smart, cared about?

If so, you should certainly speak to men first initiate the green lighr because your personality is your X factor.

Why hide it? When you can use it attract men who want to get to know you better and date exclusively.

Ladies, what do you think a man would do if you showed genuine interest in what he was saying and intentionally tried to make him feel good when you first meet?

10/14/2026

We must vote and vote blue down the line! Who has voted? We all need to vote early because life must get better now…not later.

10/10/2026

If you’re tired all the time, your body hurts, and you keep telling yourself you’ll rest “when things slow down,” this is for you.

Things aren’t going to slow down. You know that.

Meanwhile, the headaches keep coming. The blood pressure creeps up. You lie awake at 2 a.m. with your mind racing. You snap at the people you love most. Your doctor has warned you, maybe more than once.

You pray about it, then get right back on the treadmill of doing everything for everybody.

Here’s what 28 years as a psychologist has taught me: your body keeps the receipts. The World Health Organization found that working 55+ hours a week was linked to a 35% higher risk of stroke. Hurry isn’t a schedule problem. It’s a soul problem that shows up in your body.

God saw this coming.

“He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters.” — Psalm 23:2 (KJV)

Notice the words “maketh me.” Sheep won’t lie down when they’re anxious. The shepherd has to make them. Some of us will be made to stop. The kinder way is to choose it before your body chooses it for you.

There’s hope here. The Adventists of Loma Linda take a full Sabbath every week, and they outlive the average American by about a decade.

In the video, I give you 3 things to start this week.

Be honest with me. When’s the last time you rested without feeling guilty?

1) This week
2) This month
3) I honestly can’t remember

Drop your number. I’m reading every one.

If you picked 3, you don’t have to figure this out alone. Inside The Transforming Circle, my private coaching community, I walk with people through exactly this every day. You get a new teaching every weekday, live masterclasses on Tuesday nights, and live coaching with me every week. It’s faith and psychology working together to help you heal.

Come join us inside The Transforming Circle. The link is pinned in the first comment.

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