Margarita Kogan, LCSW

Margarita Kogan, LCSW Psychotherapist Online, group and walk and talk therapy are now being offered

08/01/2026

Most people think the roommate feeling comes from big fights or growing apart. It doesn’t. It starts in the first sixty seconds after someone walks through the door.
The deeper pain isn’t the phone. It’s watching the person you used to run to the door for treat coming home like clocking out.
He’s not choosing his phone over you. He’s just decompressing on autopilot, because no one ever built a different first sixty seconds.
And it leaves you feeling like a coworker he shares a kitchen with instead of a partner.
The shift starts here, comment “CONNECT”

07/28/2026

Touch became a question with one answer. When every hug reads as an opening bid, your body braces instead of receives. The issue isn’t desire. Touch lost its other meanings.
You don’t need more s*x.
You need touch that isn’t asking for anything. Comment “CONNECT” and I’ll send you a free quiz that shows you what you need to reconnect ❤️

07/28/2026

One of the most common things I hear in couples therapy is:
“We just don’t have anything to talk about anymore.”
Most people assume that means the relationship is fading.
Usually, it means something much simpler.
John Gottman calls it your Love Map—your understanding of your partner’s inner world.
Not what meetings they have tomorrow.
But what’s been stressing them lately.
What they’re excited about.
What they’re secretly worried about.
What they’re dreaming about next.
The problem is, Love Maps don’t stay current on their own.
If you stop updating each other, you slowly start relating to an older version of the person you love.
So no… you probably aren’t out of things to say.
You’re just overdue for getting to know each other again.
❤️ Comment CONNECT and I’ll send you my free relationship pattern quiz to help you figure out where to start reconnecting

07/24/2026

You don’t have to keep wondering why the same conversations never seem to change anything.
Most couples don’t have a communication problem.
They’re stuck in one of three predictable relationship patterns. That’s why the same fight keeps happening, why you already know how the conversation will end, and why talking about it hasn’t brought you closer.
The first step isn’t communicating harder—it’s understanding the pattern you’re in.
Comment CONNECT and I’ll send you the quiz that shows you exactly which relationship pattern you’re stuck in and where to start reconnecting. ❤️

07/24/2026

Most couples think relationships fall apart because of one big event.
An affair.
A huge fight.
A betrayal.
Sometimes they do.
But more often, it’s much quieter than that.
It’s the conversations that never happen.
The goodbye kiss that disappears.
The “I’ll tell you later” that never comes.
The evenings spent managing life instead of sharing it.
None of those moments seem important on their own.
But over time, they answer a question every relationship is asking:
“Am I still chosen?”
The good news?
If a thousand tiny moments can slowly create distance, a thousand tiny moments can rebuild connection, too.
What’s one small moment that makes you feel chosen by your partner?

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