07/29/2026
Quick question for you: who is the "outside adult" in your kid's life right now?
It could be an aunt, a coach, a grandparent, a family friend. The title doesn't matter. What matters is that your child has somewhere to turn that isn't you.
I talk to parents all the time who feel like they need to be everything for their kid. The therapist, the best friend, the safe space, all of it. But that's not actually what kids need, and honestly, it's not sustainable for us either.
What kids need is a village. A few trusted adults who each hold a different piece. You handle the big stuff. That aunt might get the vent sessions. That coach might get the jokes nobody else finds funny. All of it adds up to a kid who feels less alone.
So tell me: who is that person for your family right now? Drop their name (or just their relationship to your kid) in the comments. I'd love to see how many different answers we get. 💙